I went to Costa Rica last week for 5 days for business trip and went out few of times at night to do my single thing. It was amazing. There were people from all over the world. I met girls from Argentina, Sweden, Germany, Switzerland, Canada and bunch of state side spring breakers. I am finding out that it really doesn't matter where they're from and how old they are. They all act the same. They'll be bitchy if you approach wrong but be open if you do it right.
After 'sarging' for half a year now, I am coming to a conclusion that a pick up routine is just a training wheel to learn how to communicate with girls. Pick up lines such as openers are a fun way of starting out a conversation. Neg's are a entertaining way to pick on the cute girls just to bring their ego down a bit. All this is really unnecessary when you 'pick up' girls at any place.
What works is be yourself during conversations. Don't change to try to please a girl. Be confident and that can be as simple as acting like you're a rockstar by leaning back, talking slower and not being so into the girl. Okay, so you can't really be your total self at first, if you're a dork that is:) Hey, I'm a dork. Confidence and teasing them in a cocky funny way is the big key to success.
I have gotten used to using direct openers.
'I noticed you earlier and wanted to know who you are. What's your name?' Or even simple as 'What's your name?'
All this at a rockstar posture and high level of confidence. I had one hot girl look at me with the look of high defense (disgust) for the first second but after she checked me out up and down, seeing how calm and cool I was, leaning back and talking in a cool tone that she literally opened up right in front of my eyes.
I chilled at the Costa Rican, Tamarindo beach most of the day. I approached this cutie with a tight body relaxing in the water and just said what's up, where you from. We talked a little, shook hands and let her go. Later, I approached her at the beach and had her rub sun block all over me.
At the clubs, I even used my little brother's line, the natural PUA and said to two cute girls. Hey, you guys are sitting on my chair but since you two seem cool, you can have it for a while. They were all apologetic and then asked for my name. We talked a bit and then I asked them an opener line 'Let me ask you two something. Do you think it's cheating if your boyfriend was at your home town and you're here but then you get drunk and make out with some random person?' After I let them go, one of them kept hanging out where I was and the other would make kissing faces at me through the night. I really wasn't that interested though and I was on chill mode most of the time I was in Costa Rica so I just entertained it.
The places to go in Costa Rica, Tamarindo is Monkey Bar Friday night, Pacifico Sunday night and Rey Sol Monday night. It's a small street on the beach and each club takes turn opening at night so there is only one bar to go to per night. Email me for more info if you're planning on going there which I highly recommend.
Out of all the girls, I actually really liked this cute canadian girl, Christina. We just connected and were in the same radio frequency if you know what I mean. So damn pretty and cool. I would've taken it further if it wasn't for a local home boy who was really into her and was trying to date her for the past month. I really liked the guy, he was cool Costa Rican guy. He told me how he doesn't have a family because his parents and sister all died of a car accident. That hit me pretty hard. His motto and all Costa Rican motto is Pula Vida (pure life). I couldn't disrespect the guy and we ended becoming friends.
Before I eject, I always give them kisses on each side of their cheeks and sometimes say 'I'm going to go back to my friends but I want you to know that after talking and getting to know you, you are a sexy girl.' That's one thing about me that I still haven't mastered. I can't seem to chill with one girl for too long. I just eject once I find nothing to talk about or if it's going no where. Than again, this allows me to talk to many girls and when I do come back to them later, they hug me and we're like friends.
I sarged way too much that week and it all kinda went the same. It's getting a bit repetitive, obviously. The big reason why routines should be avoided after being comfortable talking to girls. Don't get me wrong, it's still fun.
There were 4 guys, part of the business group that I was with, who stood around and complained how girls at the bar were still snobby like the state side. It's very entertaining to see that having game can make night life so fun and when guys see you talk to all these pretty girls, you instantly become an Alpha male of the group and they'll buy you drinks and want to hang out with you.
Attraction can't be understood. Out of 15 or so girls I hit on, 1 really stood out. I don't know why? They were all very pretty and fun to talk to but Christina, Canadian girl stood out. Maybe it's a preference that triggers your brain because subconsciously you had a good experience with a girl that looked like her when you were young. Maybe it's how she gamed you. Maybe it's the way she smell or the way she talks. Maybe it's her boob and ass size. I'll look more into this.
I've decided after all this experience that I'm going to go back home to Guam end of this year. Costa Rica reminded me of home with the tropical hot weather and the cool and mellow life style. I'm going to learn a lot more about girls psychology through out this year and and then settle down back home. Guam is no place to sarge. Small population and we know everybody so my sarging days will be over. Here in San Diego, there are different girls every damn night I go out and it's full of hot ones. Pretty girls are really common. I never see the same girl more than twice. Amazing. Infinite amount of girl to hit on. I always feel like it's Christmas and all this wonderful gifts to unwrap.
This week and next week is Spring Break. Time to mack on college spring breakers:) Why do we have to like the young pretty ones so much. It must the young attitude and highly energy. Maybe because they are the prettiest at that age, 18-23.
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