Falling in LOVE

I finally found one girl that I can see myself getting into a serious relationship with. This is one girl that I can't play my games with because I lose control and act like a mister nice guy.

First off, I am naturally a nice guy. Like most guys, I instinctively do the wrong thing such as buying them small gifts and do things for them more than they do things for us.

I have heard many guys, including myself in the past, say that we give so much but hardly get anything in return. We naturally want to buy them things, agree with them in many conversations just to be in her good side and basically putting them on a pedestal.

Women don't care too much about being smothered. There is a time and place for that and the timing is very important. For some reason, us guys think that it's a great way to impress her and win her heart. Who or what made us men so bad at understanding women and not giving them what they really want. It's not being treated like a princess.

FYI: This rule doesn't apply after sex. After a sexual relationship is established than it becomes a all new ball game. Smothering and pampering helps with the relationship but at an unexpected time.

I like to summarize it in one sentence. Women needs their emotions to be pleased! Some women don't think it but it's true. They want excitement in their relationships not just a boring, easy, controllable boyfriend. They need to feel jealous, love, teased, pampered, secured, taken care of, most emotions you can find in the dictionary. Reason why, as sad as it may sound, is that most beautiful girls are with bad boys who seems to treat them like shit because most other guys kiss ass and is too damn nice and predictable. Being nice all the time never works so get that out of your head. Sometimes when the girl is less attractive than your level of attractiveness, let's say she's a 6 and you might consider yourself an 8, being nice can work because she wants you for your looks.

Crazy, I know.

Anyways, back to my main story. So I like this girl in a deeper level. I have talked to her for 7 months, on and off, slowest progression I have ever experienced. It's so different from all other girls I've met. It's almost like she's the pick up artist. She's so fucking cool. She knows how to play hard to get and yet still give me this small response to get me to come back. I can tell she really likes but but still keeps me on the edge. If I don't reply in couple of weeks, she'll leave a small myspace comment that gets me back. She can easily find dates and all kinds of guys goes after her. At clubs for eample, if I leave her alone for a minute, some dude is on her instantly. You get the idea.

Lets just say I haven't found anything I didn't like about her. I'm very picky. How is that possible?

Let me tell you what happened just last two nights.

It's friday night and I'm off to meet her (I'm going to call her Cha, which I have also written about her in earlier blog entries) and other friends at the Prospect Club in La Jolla, California. The girl who is promoting asked me to come and join them at their table so how can I turn down free entry, free drinks and beautiful people. The club is amazing. Most of the people were attractive and well dressed. I surprise Cha and friends by meeting them there without telling them. Cha tells me she's happy that I'm there.

There is another girl there that is within the circle of friends named Bon. She's an acquaintance with Cha but had slept with her ex couple of weeks ago so they are in this unfriendly battle. I happen top be friends with both of them and both of them happen to like me as well. How the hell did I get myself in the middle like this? However, I really have feelings for Cha but have just a friendly feelings for Bon.

Bon gets all over me, tries to kiss me and hug me and basically cling onto me. I don't want to participate int hat activity. I know Bon has become very aggressive since Cha was there and knew what was up.

Girls can be so damn competitive with each other. That's a hard fact. I'm sorry to say but I used that to my advantage. When Cha saw me talking to Bon, she became sour and when Bon saw me talking to Cha, Bon became more aggressive. It was so entertaining to experience this.

Thanks to our promoter friend, all of us got pretty drunk. I got a chance to kiss Cha and man it was sweet.

This continued on to the next night when I went out with Cha and couple of other friends to downtown. We headed to Stingeree kinda late and the line was super long. Just as we were about to leave, Bon and her group of girl friends shows up and they had us on the list to get in but still had problems letting the guys in. Just then our other acquaintance, who happen to have a VIP table walks by and tells me and my other homie to come inside with him. Let me tell you, that felt pretty damn good to be walking in VIP style in front of all this other people who are stuck at the line.

Competition between Cha and Bon was still pretty fierce and I played it to my advantage. All the guys I was with were pretty impressed to watch couple of hot girls fight for me like that. Cha, however kept it cool, just the way I like it. In the end, I just ditched out to more secluded area in the club with Cha alone and hung out with her most of the time.

It was 2am so we went to my friends house to crash, since I live in LA now and we were partying in San Diego, but my other groups of friends were in the house just chilling. We decided to get adventurous and headed out to look for an after party. Some random promoter on the street gave us this dinky flyer and told us to check it out. The location was pretty suspicious and they were serving alcohol til 8 in the morning. It was a rave so we got high, danced til 7am and went home with Cha and had the best massage and conversation I've had in many years with a woman.

I didn't want to crowd this story with the details but it was an amazing weekend. With friends like this and a place like San Diego, single life can be so damn addictive and great. You just have to play your cards right. I have til August to party it up before heading to Guam, my home town. I better make the best of it.

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Saddle Ranch PUA experience

I finally got a chance to go to the infamous Saddle Ranch in Los Angeles to see what the hype was all about. This is the place where Mystery and other pick up artist do their live seminars at. My friend and I went in and noticed that there were no dance floors and there is a mechanical bull in the middle of the bar. It was a Thursday night so I guess it meant that it wasn't too busy. I was keeping my eyes out for peacocking guys that were pick up artists but didn't find any that stood out.

I get a phone call from a female friend of mine for a booty call but I tell her I'm already out with my friend and tell her I thought she was so sweet to call me this late for some nastiness.

We looked around and decided to drink just one beer for the night. I wasn't really in the mood to get all crazy tonight but I noticed 2 cute hispanic girls sitting by the bar. I also noticed 2 cute white girls by the bar as well and noticed them checking us out so we decided that we shouldn't approach them first. We should have them see us talking to other people before we approach them so that they won't think we're after their jewels:)

I went over the the cute Hispanic girls and asked them where I can find a better bar to go to since the Saddle Ranch was so dead.

Always remember to approach with confidence and talk slow but firmly.

The Mystery openers are kinda rough to go with since it's so damn main stream and so many girls have watched the pick up artist show on VH1. I already had a handful of girls ask me if I got my approaches from that show which usually ends up me just walking away from the conversation since their guard goes up so damn high. Don't get me wrong, Mystery's stuff is still top notch.

Anyways, the cute one of the left gave me the stink eye and a cold shoulder. I was still in control since I came in with a cool body language that shows that I'm not really interested and I personally don't get intimidated that easily.

I said: Do you sense something bad from me? I'm really not trying to get your number or take you home with me. I really want to know a cool place to hang besides this place.
Cute girl replys: I'm just cautious of player kinda guys.

I loved it. I love it when girls tells me I'm a player just from meeting me for the first time. Doesn't most girl want a player than a shy, boring guy? What a compliment.

I tell her: You're lucky then because I'm not interested.

It was on since then. I get my homie into the conversations and we all have great time. We're all laughing and joking and teasing. I never give her a straight answer. She asks me what nationality I am and I tell her I'm Puerto Rican (I'm Korean). She teases me and I tease her back. I tell her I hate her since she's so mean and that we can never date because she'll just make me cry. She tells me she wants to marry me though.

She asks what kind of bar we want to go to and I said somewhere with a dance floor. She challenges me to see if I knew how to dance and stands up next to me. I grab her and give her a little salsa move and she was impressed and possibly tuned on.

My homie was next to her so they start a comfort building conversation and so do I with the cute ones friend. The friend was cute but not as cute:) I'd say a 6 and the other one was an 8 but made her a 9 since she was so fun to talk to. The friend and I exchange names and talk about simple stuff. My homie gets the cuties number and she says that we all need to go out tomorrow together.

I over hear my homie telling the cutie my name so I jump in and tell him not tell her. She asks me why. I say 'because I don't like you'. She does a motion of her heart breaking and I take it, throw it on the floor and stomp on it. She's shocked. I than pretend to pick up the heart and tell her I want to put it back inside her. She teases me by thrusting her chest at me all sexually. I pull away and tell her I don't think so.

Even though my homie got the number it is understood between us that whoever opens the set has the choice. I love it when my homie gets the number cause it makes me harder to get and the girl knows I can still be reached but far enough that it's still a challenge.

We had to go since the our parking meter was only for an hour. The cutie asks me if I really hate her. I think she was serious so I lean close to her ear and say yes I really hate you and pull away. I then quickly pull up real close to her with her knees on my groin and my arms around her and whisper to her ear what my real name is. She tells me what her name is and tells me she wants to see me tomorrow night. We just stared into each others eyes with that nonverbal, sexual communication. I have built so much sexual tension between us with all the teasing and hating that we could've made out right there but since I really had to go, I give her a kiss on both of the cheeks and leave.

Leaving her with a sense of Mystery is big. We all love the challenge and the mystery of 'what will happen in the future' perspective. Anyways, I had a great time just talking to the two girls. We laughed, joked, teased and got a little physical. Just having a great conversation with the world is amazing to me and so damn fun. The key is to learn what Mystery and David Deangelo has to teach you and make it your own. Try not to copy them for word for word. Understand the concept of being a man and having that confidence and you being the prize is what it takes to meet great and wonderful ladies.

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Being Yourself.

I know I haven't written in a while and that's because doing the same thing over and over got pretty old real fast. Saying the same thing felt fake and I didn't feel emotionally satisfied. After going out so many times and talking to so many girls, you tend to get burnt out a bit. So I took a break. I kept going out but didn't have that game mentality. Also want to mention that I've had a handful of girls tell me I must've read the game book or watched the pick up artist tv show.

The goal is to keep doing it until it becomes you naturally. Now when I go out, I don't think about openers, negs and any other methods. Now, I just act like myself and not let them have it so damn easy.

Lets be honest, most guys will start to act nice and start giving and do anything they can to impress the girl. The harder you try the less it works and more the girl pushes you away. Crazy, I know. Damn girls. Than again, we do the same thing. When a girl gives it up easily to me, I tend to lose interest fast unless of course if she is very attractive than her giving it up easily still makes you like her.

Now, when I go out, it's all about having that confidence. I throw that cocky funny comments from time to time. There is no sequence I follow. When I feel like complimenting her, I'm careful not to give it to her that easily and rephrase them. Instead of saying 'I think you're so beautiful' I'll say something like 'you are so adorable' then give her a soft pinch on her cheeks.

You're probably wondering why I'm writing after all this months. I'll tell you why. Last night I went out to gaslamp downtown and met a damn attractive girl. I rolled out with a two other homies and 4 home girls. The night was amazing.

She gave me a quick look and I responded quickly by taking her hand and taking her to the dance floor. I didn't even ask. I just took her cause I knew what I wanted and showed her exactly that. I felt instant hard attraction from her. We danced intimately for 10 minutes without saying anything and it was hot. I finally broke it and asked her name. We talked in the middle of the dance floor. I would freak her than back off, spin her than freak her again.

I think of dancing as like fucking. We have to change it up cause doing one thing can get boring and plus, it's a great time to show the girl what you can do in the bed. You have to lead all the time. Be the man.

I told her I'm trying hard not to kiss her than I kissed her. This kiss was great compared to all other kisses I had when I go out because we had this chemistry. We were in the same page and kept starting at each others eyes. She would hold my face and I would grab the back of her neck and we would kiss. I finally broke it off and offered to get her a drink. She said no, than I offered her a cup of water and took her hand and headed to the bar. I stopped half way and introduced her to my crew. My home girl tells her that she should like me because I'm a great catch. I love her:)

I meet her brother and friend. The friend tells me he knows me from the movie fast and the furious. I pat him on the back and tell him he's cool. He buys me and my new girl shots. He instantly likes me but her brother was a bit cautious. I even think he told her I was a player which she tell me that she knows I'm a player. Really, what does that mean? I ask her if that intimidates her. She smiles.

We go outside for a smoke and I get her number. We talk, hold each other, kiss couple times. I noticed how comfortable real fast. I tell her she won't be able to handle me. She tells me I'm too young for her even though she's 3 years younger than me. I find myself qualifying myself to her but I say it in a way where it shows some value. I say "how can I be so young for you when I'm older and am a man. Isn't it being a man about having your my own business and ambitions that's being reached?" Than I tell her I'll giver her 10 seconds to get over it. She tells me being 30 is still young. I tell her I love her for that.

I like to tell girls things like "I love you", "when we get married", "when we have love quarrels" to break the uncomfotable emotional barrier. It's psychological. You usually only say this to someone you have know for a while or to a girlfriend so it brings back ease emotions making you two feel closer than usual real quick.

She tells me I'm a player and rushes away from me to go back inside. I hold back. Than I'm missing her already so I go inside to look for her. The place is crowded and dark and couldn't find her for 10 minutes. I go back outside and luckily I have her number so I call her. Se picks up but i can't hear her because of the loud music. She comes outside and tells me she's been searching for me. I tell her the same thing. The place closes so she says bye and walks away. I grab her by hand, pull her back and kiss her one last time. She whispers in my ear that I'll make a great fuck. Damn. I have never had a great compliment like that on the first night of meeting a girl. When you look at her, she is super hot, thin tight body and has an innocent look and to hear her talk like that blew my mind.

I like this one. The chemistry was electrifying. It does suck that I live in LA now and she's in San Diego.

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Partying My Ass Off

It's been a while since I wrote but I've been going through a lot of transitions. Yes, I have been doing my thing but nothing out of the ordinary. I do have to write about last night though. Ooh was it so damn fun.

We headed to Stingeree. We got our own bottle service in a cabana and had over a dozen girl friends come by and party out with us. I met so many people that I knew including some of the models that were performing that night. I was such an Alpha Male that even this one cute blond friend of mine 'sar' kissed me on my lips. I do get alot of lip kissing from alot of girls now a days. Usually I kiss the girls on the cheeks but the real cute ones with the confidence that dig me kisses me on the lips. I love it.

Shit, I drank so much. Not only did we get our own drinks from our table, we visited other people that I knew in other tables and they all gave us drinks. I was faded but in a good way where I can still do my thing. I just remembered that I got a girls phone number, a tall brunette and I'm not even that interested even though she's cute. I knew two of the models that were competing tonight and they were all over me making my ass look so damn good in front of others. I was getting kisses all night. I even had this one cute as model that jumped in front of me and got so excited to see me. My boys behind me thought I was legendary after seeing me all night. I thought I was too. It was so damn fun!

Stingeree is a high end club where you have to be looking your best and the girls are the snobbiest if you don't have any game. I was on top of the world last night! Tonight is another party night. I know it's not going to be as great as last night but I always have fun. I have to get this shit out of my system since I'll be moving back to Guam this August and believe me, there will be no sarging and partying like a wild animal.

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Sarging at Costa Rica

I went to Costa Rica last week for 5 days for business trip and went out few of times at night to do my single thing. It was amazing. There were people from all over the world. I met girls from Argentina, Sweden, Germany, Switzerland, Canada and bunch of state side spring breakers. I am finding out that it really doesn't matter where they're from and how old they are. They all act the same. They'll be bitchy if you approach wrong but be open if you do it right.

After 'sarging' for half a year now, I am coming to a conclusion that a pick up routine is just a training wheel to learn how to communicate with girls. Pick up lines such as openers are a fun way of starting out a conversation. Neg's are a entertaining way to pick on the cute girls just to bring their ego down a bit. All this is really unnecessary when you 'pick up' girls at any place.

What works is be yourself during conversations. Don't change to try to please a girl. Be confident and that can be as simple as acting like you're a rockstar by leaning back, talking slower and not being so into the girl. Okay, so you can't really be your total self at first, if you're a dork that is:) Hey, I'm a dork. Confidence and teasing them in a cocky funny way is the big key to success.

I have gotten used to using direct openers.

'I noticed you earlier and wanted to know who you are. What's your name?' Or even simple as 'What's your name?'

All this at a rockstar posture and high level of confidence. I had one hot girl look at me with the look of high defense (disgust) for the first second but after she checked me out up and down, seeing how calm and cool I was, leaning back and talking in a cool tone that she literally opened up right in front of my eyes.

I chilled at the Costa Rican, Tamarindo beach most of the day. I approached this cutie with a tight body relaxing in the water and just said what's up, where you from. We talked a little, shook hands and let her go. Later, I approached her at the beach and had her rub sun block all over me.

At the clubs, I even used my little brother's line, the natural PUA and said to two cute girls. Hey, you guys are sitting on my chair but since you two seem cool, you can have it for a while. They were all apologetic and then asked for my name. We talked a bit and then I asked them an opener line 'Let me ask you two something. Do you think it's cheating if your boyfriend was at your home town and you're here but then you get drunk and make out with some random person?' After I let them go, one of them kept hanging out where I was and the other would make kissing faces at me through the night. I really wasn't that interested though and I was on chill mode most of the time I was in Costa Rica so I just entertained it.

The places to go in Costa Rica, Tamarindo is Monkey Bar Friday night, Pacifico Sunday night and Rey Sol Monday night. It's a small street on the beach and each club takes turn opening at night so there is only one bar to go to per night. Email me for more info if you're planning on going there which I highly recommend.

Out of all the girls, I actually really liked this cute canadian girl, Christina. We just connected and were in the same radio frequency if you know what I mean. So damn pretty and cool. I would've taken it further if it wasn't for a local home boy who was really into her and was trying to date her for the past month. I really liked the guy, he was cool Costa Rican guy. He told me how he doesn't have a family because his parents and sister all died of a car accident. That hit me pretty hard. His motto and all Costa Rican motto is Pula Vida (pure life). I couldn't disrespect the guy and we ended becoming friends.

Before I eject, I always give them kisses on each side of their cheeks and sometimes say 'I'm going to go back to my friends but I want you to know that after talking and getting to know you, you are a sexy girl.' That's one thing about me that I still haven't mastered. I can't seem to chill with one girl for too long. I just eject once I find nothing to talk about or if it's going no where. Than again, this allows me to talk to many girls and when I do come back to them later, they hug me and we're like friends.

I sarged way too much that week and it all kinda went the same. It's getting a bit repetitive, obviously. The big reason why routines should be avoided after being comfortable talking to girls. Don't get me wrong, it's still fun.

There were 4 guys, part of the business group that I was with, who stood around and complained how girls at the bar were still snobby like the state side. It's very entertaining to see that having game can make night life so fun and when guys see you talk to all these pretty girls, you instantly become an Alpha male of the group and they'll buy you drinks and want to hang out with you.

Attraction can't be understood. Out of 15 or so girls I hit on, 1 really stood out. I don't know why? They were all very pretty and fun to talk to but Christina, Canadian girl stood out. Maybe it's a preference that triggers your brain because subconsciously you had a good experience with a girl that looked like her when you were young. Maybe it's how she gamed you. Maybe it's the way she smell or the way she talks. Maybe it's her boob and ass size. I'll look more into this.

I've decided after all this experience that I'm going to go back home to Guam end of this year. Costa Rica reminded me of home with the tropical hot weather and the cool and mellow life style. I'm going to learn a lot more about girls psychology through out this year and and then settle down back home. Guam is no place to sarge. Small population and we know everybody so my sarging days will be over. Here in San Diego, there are different girls every damn night I go out and it's full of hot ones. Pretty girls are really common. I never see the same girl more than twice. Amazing. Infinite amount of girl to hit on. I always feel like it's Christmas and all this wonderful gifts to unwrap.

This week and next week is Spring Break. Time to mack on college spring breakers:) Why do we have to like the young pretty ones so much. It must the young attitude and highly energy. Maybe because they are the prettiest at that age, 18-23.

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Logan's PUA technique

I'm going to lay out my personal PUA technique. You guys may use this routine and let me know how it goes. Keep in mind that you also must have a 'rockstar' posture. Speak loud but a bit slower like you're cool. Lean back. Don't lean forward to hear her. Have her lean to you. Here it goes.

You need a way to open up the girl without having her reject you right away. Best way to do so is with an opinion opener or a direct opener. Two openers that I really enjoy using.

Opinion Opener: Can I get a your opinion on something? My friends and I are trying to resolve this issue. Do you think it's cheating if you kiss someone else when you're drunk? Is it cheating if the girlfriend kisses other girls?

Direct Opener: Can I be honest with you? I really don't know why but I am attracted to you. What's your name?

Then you throw in a quick time restraint: I can't stay long, I have to meet up with my friends.

I demonstrating that I have higher value than they do by having them qualify them self to me: You know what? You seem really cool. Do you consider yourself to be adventurous? What do you do? What do you want to do when you grow up?

You want to then move them, even if it's couple of feet. It's a psychological sense of going on a quick date: Let's move over there for a second. This place is way too loud. There's something cool I want to show you.

I then create attraction by eiter showing them palm reading, cube routine, ring routine and my latest favorite, ancient chinese massage technique: My ex girlfriend was a massage therapist and she showed me this technique she learned from a Chinese guru. Let me see your hand real quick. (Hold her hand and massage her outer palm) If you rub here for 10 minutes or so, your headache will go away and you'll know it's working if you feel a tingle in your leg. Do you feel it? (Of course this is bullshit but if she likes you she may say she kinda feels it) Here if you rub here (as you rub another part of her palm) you can get rid of your headache, you can tell because your chest will start to get a little warmer. Can you feel that? Okay, now I showed you a chinese secret, pinky promise that you won't tell anyone.

It is important that you 'kino' escalate her. Touching is the best way to create physical attraction but make sure they are light touches only in appropriate spots like elbow, lower back, hands, ect.

It is now for the comfort phase. Build rapport by asking about her personal life and giving out your personal information and such. You can than get her phone number at this point 99.99% of the time. Give her your phone so she can put it in herself.

A great way to kiss close this one is the 3 kiss routine. Tell her to give you a kiss on your one cheek, pointing to it, then the other then point to your lips. Hooaah!

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Las Vegas!

I went to Las Vegas for the first time this last weekend! I went with a group of 18 people so it was a bit tough to pick up girls without having to leave them. We also shared a 2 bedroom suite between 10 of us, so there was no privacy. We partied from friday til sunday morning with only 3 hours of sleep with couple of us that didn't sleep at all. Crazy, I know. It was the party favor that allowed us to party that long without having to crash out.

Friday night we headed to the Bank club and two other clubs that I can't recall. Yes I was fucked up but in a great way. I had my digital camera so I would go up to cute girls and ask them to be in my pictures and the great thing about it is that they all would say yes with enthusiasm. They'll pose close to me. This is a great way to open up a girl or two. To be honest, I didn't sarge that much out here. I was there for my friends birthday and she made sure that I don't wonder off with some other girl on her birthday celebration. I had to be a gentleman and stick around.

The party ended at 7 in the morning and we went back to our suite, slept for an hour and a half and headed to the jacuzzi. I noticed a girl chilling by herself so I walked up to her and basically invited her to party with us. I gave her my number and told her to call me. She texts me later saying how hot I was and that she wants me to invite her over and she has some party favors as well. She comes over, meets my friends and tells me that she can't go party with us because her girlfriend is being lame and wants to stay in for the night. Must've been bullshit but she told me to call her later so we can hang out alone as she fondles my body. She wanted some action from me but I just didn't have the time so I just left it at that and partied some more all over Vegas. Everything felt like a dream and the fun lasted the whole weekend. I don't have any pick up stories here except that I made small talks with as much cute girls I can. The girls here were the same with the girls in san diego and LA. They are all snobby and I saw many guys get blown away. So it just goes to show now a days, we have to have a tight game to make shit happen.

I'm headed off to Costa Rica this week. I'll do better and will report back with more info. Stay tuned.

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