San Diego Gaslamp.

I wanted to start this post by giving the respects to Mystery, Styles and Deangelo for educating all the men around the world in how to seduce woman. We need all the help we can get in psychology of woman. We don't want to settle for what we can get and we don't want to feel lucky. For all my life, I thought it had to do with luck and them just liking you for your looks, power and money. I was wrong. If you can stimulate woman and give her the psychological excitement, she would be more than willing to be yours. I have a female friend who went on a date with this young rich and famous author. She was the one that went after him and she got through to get a date with him. She's a badass. Anyways, after the date, the guy took her hand and just placed it on his peepee. She got quickly turned off and went home. One fucked up move or word than it's all over. We have to be so damn fucking smooth.

Friday night at the gaslamp:

I decided to go out by myself tonight. All my friends were doing something or just didn't want to go out. I had one friend tell me his group was going to get a VIP table at Sins, so I thought I'd be better off checking that spot out than being home alone.

Going out alone is always unusual since we're not used to it but I have been enjoying it very much. As soon as I got there, while I was walking by myself to Sins, this dude Jason just started small talks with me as we were both headed to the same club. He knew the promoters so he got me in for free and met up with some of his crew. He was a cool cat. Dressed well and I could see he'd make a good wingman.

This is something I always do when I go out myself. I try to find a group that I can instantly becomes friends with. I am lucky for the fact that I seem to be very approachable for everybody. They have been approaching me. I even took my sister to Chili's and a big group said that we should join there table. I was told that I draw people in to me. I'm a social person naturally.

I get a drink and I chill next to the crew and I notice a blond and a brunette. I liked the blond so I opened her up.

Me: "Why don't you go up to that dance floor and show that asian girl how white girls do it."

I'm asian so I can get away with saying things like that.

Blond: "No, you go up there. "
Me: "If I go up there, you have to put a dollar on my back pocket."
Blond: "I'll give you five dollars."

With a brotha next to me giving the go ahead, I go up there a dance a little and she gave me the 5 bucks and smacked my ass and I quickly got down. I enjoy dancing.

I talk to her a bit and I tell the guys lets move to another location. I don't want to stay around the two girls. I am showing them that I don't care to be around them all the time. I get another drink and go dance with another girl for a bit. I than went back and brought the girls to the VIP table that my other friends had.

Free drinks all night! I introduced the girls and one of the guy that I kinda know, quickly took the blond. That's so fucked up. My first choice quickly gone. It's alright, he didn't know I was trying to mack on her anyways. I would hate to have a friend take a girl from me but then again I have done that to my brother in the past. I know that's bad and I do feel bad about it but he does just as well if not better on communicating with girls so it doesn't bother me too much. We always try to show off and challenge each other. I'm a fucking superman when he's with me. A girl once even told us we should be in a calendar. Haha. Crazy.

Luckily the brunette was just as cute. I just prefer blonds. I teased the brunette. Told her to go away. Dance with her all seductive than push her away as she gets really into it. Told her to quit acting so drink and clumsy or the bouncer will kick her out. She loved it. She even asked if I lived nearby. This girl wanted to go home with me. Very cool.

She would kiss me and push me away than kiss me again. This went on all night. She finally told me she had a boyfriend and that she's being bad. I told her that she was the one that's making me do bad things. I have learned that you can never make a girl feel like she's doing something slutty. My method was to try to take that guilt away from her and to make me the guilty one.

I honestly couldn't care that she had a boyfriend. Even better. I don't want to get in a relationship for a while so a girl that will not get attached is the best kind. I'm playing with fire but it's so damn fun. This is Southern California where faithfulness is close to zero. Sad but true.

I told her that I was only going to give her a good conversation and nothing else. She told me to sit down so she can give me a lap dance. Fucking cool.

Night came to an end and I took off without any number. It was a good night. It does suck that I didn't get the blond since she was single and she was digging me from the first place but not apparently hard enough. So I'm back at the drawing board. What could I have done to make the outcome the way I want it to be. The blond was the one that kept pulling me to her to talk to me. Maybe it was because I was trying to bring the brunette into the conversation or to dance with both of me and the blond. I didn't want to leave her alone or I thought the brunette will pull the blond from me, which usually happens. I thought making the blond feel less special might have worked but because I have already went past the seduction phase, she got the wrong impression. Maybe it's because I kissed the blond way too early. It was only a little peck on the lips. This happened when she kept talking to me and pulling me so damn close to her lips. Maybe it was because I kept leaving her. Not all girls are the same and one technique will not work on all girls.

I am going out with Corrida and some friends tonight to another club in Gaslamp. We'll see what we have in store for tonight.