Damage Control

I finally feel free. Middle of 2007, before i knew about Mystery Method and David Deangelo's Cocky and funny technique (great pick up artists), I was a lost chump. I was too damn nice and didn't realize that there is a heavy psychology behind communications with women. It all changed with 'Spears'. Spears was THE blond. She was a 10, awesome personality and down to earth. She liked me and was totally interested and I blew it like a chump. This is embarrassing but I'm going to break it down to you. I did everything that a chump does. I called her too much. I showed too much interest too fast. Embrace yourself, I even bought her a tail light bulb for her car since it was broken and dropped it off at her work with a cup of jamba juice. Isn't life too damn weird? Wasn't that the nice thing to do?

I realize now that timing is crucial. Something like that can be nice but only if you guys are beyond sex. You never want to buy or do things for her that's out of your way if you haven't had sex with her yet.

Well, needless to say, she stopped calling back and responding. I went into her 'creeper' profile I'm sure. Spears was THE reason why I got into teaching myself the Venusian Arts and going out to the field and just going all out weekly. I have to thank her, not personally, for changing my whole frame. My night life and social personality has improved. How do you fuck up what was already given to your table? I had to make changes. It had to be done. I am still learning but am now socializing with 10's like they're just dorky friends that i always had.

Last Wednesday night, after not talking to her for half a year, I asked her to come to see a band with me and as strictly as friends. I needed her to know, I'm not looking for a girlfriend. She hesitated but said yes, so I picked her up. I talked to her like she was my little sister. Teasing and calling her homie and such. Some of my friends were at the concert already so I introduced her to all of them. I was cool to her the whole night. Not being around her too much. Having her buy half of the alcohol tab. I even had her go get me a drink at the bar while I chilled and watched the band with friends. Couple of guys that I met, who were friend of a friend, were hitting on her after asking her if I was her boyfriend. I encouraged and pushed her to it. This two guys were buying her drinks and trying to get with her. I told Spears, they were her new boyfriend and she should get them to buy me drinks.

My frame is pretty awesome. People generally like to talk to me so Spears saw the social skills that I had. Made friends with a band producer, bouncer, my friend's friend and I always introduced her to them. She saw that I didn't need her to have fun. It was late and was time to go. She gave me a little hump with her leg wrapped around me before we stepped out of the bar. I liked it. We walked to my car and she held my arms the whole way. We were a little tipsy so she told me about not wanting a boyfriend and opened up a bit. I told her I can't even think about a girlfriend, which is true. For a while, I do not want to get a girlfriend. I have too much shit going on and am planning on fine tuning my sarging methods. I was at her door for 15 minutes and we kept talking. She didn't want to leave. I nudged her and finally made her go home. I am changing this shit around. I am going to be pushing her away and she is the one that's going to hang with me. How? Not too sure yet but we'll see how it goes from here.

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Going out without my wingmen.

Friday night. I had two girls wanting to go watch a movie but I couldn't get ready in time to go with them. My friend had his brother and 2 other guys visit him and were at downtown and wants me to come to see me do my thing. The brother and friends are in their 40's and I don't want to be a monkey for them. That's a No Go. Breezy asks me come over to celebrate her girlfriends birthday in PB. Bingo!

I never went out with Breezy before. She's my massage therapist and a great friend. Very entrepreneurial and we trade business informations. She knows a lot of millionaires. Very cool person and very pretty. Mixed race, exotic, tall and with green/brown/blue (very unique) eyes. Just not my type physically. I am going more towards the white girls, me being Asian and being raised in Guam with no white girls. I just want something different for a while. Girls I'm not used to dating. White girls and yes, especially blonds. If I want a girl that looks exotic and islander like, my babies mama is on top of the list.

Breezy tells me that Sam and his girl is going to pick us up to go down there. She says he's a great photographer. Hey, I can network with the guy. He shows up and I stand to meet the guy. As soon as I see him, it's Sam that I videographed for his wedding.

2 years ago, me and my friends had a wedding video business and his wedding was one of them. I admired his wife. She was very cool and pretty and had a strong sense of frame and pulled me in. No, I don't hit on anyone's wife. A year later, I check up on them and find out they divorced. Well, long story short, I hooked up with his ex wife and I knew Sam was still in love with her. I still like her. Her names Candy which I wrote so much about below. I was about to leave but Breezy made me stay. Fuck it. It'll make a great story.

We go to Johnny V's in PB and there are handful of girls in there. This fucking sucked going out without my wingmen. Nina's friend got a hotel room nearby which was pimped with $1000 of alcohol. It was mostly guys and some of their girlfriend in the group luckily one guy was cool. He was peacocking and we instantly knew where we were coming from. Rest of them were fucking dumb asses. I'm a pretty cool guy good looking and girls approach me at times just from my looks. I always make friends with bouncers, managers and promoters and naturally get them to like me and to hook me up with things. It's all about the strong frame. Having them in your world and ideas. Cool people could sense cool people. Enough tooting my own horn. However, the guys that showed up for the birthday girl and Breezy were all those losers that stand around with beer in hand and have zero games. They also have a bland personality and have loser written all over them. They are so fucking boring, they don't even talk to each other. I know I'm sounding like an ass but you have seen those guys that we all desperately don't want to become.

Fuck it, I am walking around by myself. I get my 'beautiful' drink and walk around the dance floor. This girl that was dancing with a guy started putting her back to me and started rubbing me. I thought it was cool so I just stood there not even minding it. Breezy and birthday girl comes by and I tell them I'm making friends with this couple. Breezy and bday girl walks off having fun. This was fucking crazy! The guy dancing with the girl says to me that he likes girls and guys and gave me that look! What the Fuck. I was disgusted and complimented as the same time. Haha. I walked off instantly.

I feel so damn uncomfortable just walking around by myself. I spent too much energy last night. No excuses bitch. Just then a big group of girls came by and one of the girl recognized me and said hi and introduced one of the girl. The one that knows me isn't attractive and she is my neighbor blond's close friend. My neighbor and her refers to me as the 'Hot Asian Neighbor'. I wasn't going to hit on any of this girls. You don't fuck with the girl friends of the girl you're kinda gaming. Such a shame. I walk off.

I noticed a hot blond sitting by herself taking a break from her girl and guy friends from earlier. 5'5", big exposed cleavage, nice apple bottom ass. I was attracted to her but my energy isn't there. Regardless, I go and say hi. She kinda pulls back and I told her I thought she was cool and just wanted to know her a bit. After just a minute of blah blah's I excused myself. I wasn't feeling it and she wasn't feeling me. I just don't have the energy right now. I'm in chill mode. So sad.

I go to my group and introduce myself to 2 girls that are single but are below 6 in my rating but what the heck. I'm not going anywhere so I have to start the engine somehow. We get shots and after 2 shots and chatting with the 2 girls, my energy is up. This two girls were into me. One of them talking to me with her boobs rubbing on my arm. I love that kino the best. I say what's up to Sam and his girl and his girl was flirty. She's touching breezy's ass and bumping me with her own ass. No, I'm not going to try to take this girl from him which would've been too damn easy. I'm not that much of an asshole. I laugh and walk away from the mess.

I go outside to smoke and notice the hot blond with her guy and girl friends. I quickly start conversations with some guys outside. Now they look like they're my crew. The blond one needed a smoke so I offer her mine but her girlfriend took it from me. I told her it wasn't for her but for her friend so I take it back and move away. Her friend says she's not impressed. A little later, as they walk pass me to go inside, I whisper to the blond she was way too cute and fun. She high fives me. I can tell she was interested since she was holding my hands for a while but her friends were trying to push her in the door. Oh well. I missed this one.

It was near closing time at this point. I got my jacket and sit next to some of the birthday crew. Two cute girls were sitting nearby so I instantly start talking to them. I ask them why they look like they're not having fun. Did they met the guy of their dreams. If they smoke gonja. They're from San Francisco and one of them loves to smoke and claims to have the real shit compared to San Diego shit. Just my luck. I was running low and needed someone for a hook up. I get her number but I tell her it's strictly for business and no funny business. She makes me call her so she can have mine. I give her a hug sn says she's my new best friend and I go out side to wait for the rest of the birthday crew. The gonja girl, Gillian, comes out and asks for a lighter. Haha, trying to play it cool I see. The two ask if I was on Yayo. No I'm not, I'm just natually energized. I invite them to the hotel 3 blocks away. I walk arm to arm with Gillian. The other one was cuter with a tighter body but later I find out Gillian's brother is her boyfriend.

We're at the hotel and everybody starts to drink more. Not me. I have to drive. At this point, the girl that was rubbing on my arms with the boobs have remorse against me and push me away since she was watching me the whole night talking to this other two cute girls. I thought she was cool but never mind her.

I can see that Gillian's friend was into me and I was so fucking into her. I ask what would Gillian do if her friend were to kiss a guy at a club because she was too drunk. Will she tell on her brother? She says no, that he should be lucky to have a girl like 'Brianna' and that she can get almost any guy that she wants. Brianna asks me if I think that she can get almost any guy. I tell her I don't have an opinion and give her a wink. She loved it. Gillian kept getting phone calls all night from this pussy whooped guy. She says that guy should only call once and if the girl is interested she'll call back. Note taken.

Security comes and we have to all leave. No crazy shit happened tonight but it was so damn fun. I have to leave since Breezy was my ride. I kiss the girls on the cheek and tap their ass goodbye and Gillian tells me to call her. She is my new hookup so I will be seeing her for sho.



I went outside to smoke

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What a mess!

Thursday night, Corrida and I headed to Yogis in Encinitas. This place was swarming with pretty girls left and right. So bizarre to see any place with more girls and not to mention that most of them were cute.

As soon as we walked in, we headed to the bar and I noticed an acquaintance, Lauren at the bar. I went up to her and she was surprised to see me. Now, I never met her in person before. She found my photography site and have acquired about it. She is a cute blond. 5'7" tall, blue eyes, nice body and loves to dance. She taught me the 'lawn mower' dance. Don't ask how that is cause you don't want to do it on the dance floor unless you want to get noticed in a bad way:) We quickly hit it off and the chemistry was there. Our conversations were instantly fun without having to play any games with her. I always made sure I didn't give her easy answers and leaned back so she had to move closer to me to talk to me. She asked for my number but I didn't ask for hers. It must've been because girls are now starting to ask for my number and that nice surprise makes me forget that I was gaming her and trying get her number.

After chatting with her for a while, I excused myself and started to walk around the bar. I think this might've been bad since the next time I saw her again, she pulled that trick on me. How do you pull off walking away without looking like a dog in search and yet give her space to let her know I am not 'clingy'. Tough one. (I messaged her next day that what were the chances that I would see her out and what are the chances that she was so fun and cool. I told her she was a dork for leaving without saying bye and that she has minus 1 points and then asked for her number so I can maybe text so we can 'accidentally' meet up again. She gave me her number.)

This night was such a wreck and fun. I decided to just say what was on my mind and see what works and what doesn't. I got my ears full for sure.

I told one girl that she pulled off the nerdy look really well with the cute glasses. She quickly responded by telling me that with that kind of line, I won't be able to pick up chicks. Ouch. Haha. So no instant neggers.

One girl asked if my friend can take there photos for them. I told them he charges. "How much?" she asked. $2.99. She said she'll take it. I also busted out my camera and took photos with the three girls also. Funny how girls love to take photos and act like they are your buddy when taking photos. Note to self: don't over do the money thing.

I told another girl that she was too tall for me and what can she do to get my attention. She bent down and asked if that was good enough. I said it'll do. Chatted a bit and left her. Cute but way too tall for me.

Went outside to smoke and two blond girls were hanging out. I asked for a light and started talking with them. I told them that I bet that they're from the east coast on a farm. They were upset with this line and told me that I was trying too hard to figure things out and that I should listen more. Wow. Only 5 minutes into talking and they were talking to me like we're bad couple. It was still fun.

Went back inside, got another drink and talked to three cute mexican girls. I told one girl that she wears her ring on her thumb because she is naturally dominant. The thumb represents Zeus and most War generals and dominating figures usually wear rings on their thumb. I told her it must've been her idea to come to this bar. I was right. She got all excited and told her other friends and than asked for my number. I gave it to her but stupid me, didn't get her number. I am juggling a handful right now so I don't need anymore just yet. Numbers are too easy to get. Only really care about the 10's number.

This thick blond girl caught my eye. I told Corrida, I wanted her. It must've been that the first sex I had was from a thick girl. When I say thick I'm talking more big boned and nice thick ass and great curves, not fat or chunky or sloppy. He told me to go talk to her. I went up and asked if she was from Hawaii since she had a flower in her ear. She said she's never been outside of San Diego. I told her too bad. Her friend complemented my tattoo and I quickly make friends with her. Another guy was chilling with them and I quickly made friends with him. He even guessed that I was from Guam. I was amazed. The blond girl started dancing all over me. I danced a bit and stopped. Before they left, I asked for her email and told her I'll write to her sometimes. She seemed happy about that and gave me her email address.

This was an interesting night. A lot has happened that I haven't even written down but the point is that I talked to as many cute girls that i can without feeling any remorse from the ones that blew me out and just having fun. Interesting how the cuter they are, the more you should neg them and the less pretty they are, more compliments will flatter them. Always open with something nice to say. Lesson learned.

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Tuesday Birthday Celebration!

I had to go out on a Tuesday night to celebrate a good friend of mine, Leo's birthday. A big group of us, mostly girls, went out to eat and headed down to PB Bar and Grill.

We drank so damn much over there. I approached 3 girl set and said "Do me a favor, it's my boy's birthday over there. I want you to go up to him and say happy birthday and he'll freak out."

One of the girl said it was her 21st birthday and that he should come up to her since she's the girl and say happy birthday. I said "This is the 20th century. That old school tradition is out the door." I walked away and than gave her the sign to do it. They turned to him and said happy birthday and he chatted with all 3 of them. Wasn't that just nice of me.

I went to the bar to get him a beer. The girl to my right tapped my shoulder and asked if I can asked for a water for her. I gave her a look and said "Why don't you ask one of your boyfriends here to get you the water."

She flipped out. She got all mad and said never mind and started to fuss. Haha. I loved it. I than looked at her over my shoulder and said "Did I offend you? I didn't mean to ruin your whole night. I'll make it up to you. I'm buying my friend a drink right now, I'll buy you a drink. What do you want?"

She said she'll only drink if I take a shot with her. What the hell, I got two shots and we drank. I left her there. 15 minutes later I brought my birthday boy over to her and I told her that she should buy my a boy a shot. She was about to complain so I gave her the 'fuck this' look and started to walk away with my friend. She quickly grabbed him and asked what he wanted. There were too many people and the bartender was taking too long to come by so we just walked away.

I love talking to girls like this. It is so damn fun. It's so damn boring to be so polite and easy. It is so much better to be a bit of a jerk but still a gentlemen in a way and that helps control the situation. If I can narrow all this technique down, it's about taking her frame and making it your own. Using the lines girls usually use and you using them first such as are you going to buy me a drink and negging them. You took what they normally do to guys and feel helpless and attracted towards you since you took her pussy power away from her. It's not about being a pick up artist but to be a man and stimulate the women's mind and body in all the way they desire. You are doing her the favor.

It's friday night right now and I have a dilemma. The 10, Melissa, hair stylist I was talking about is my oneitis. Oneitis is what Styles calls that one girl who you are so fuckin whooped with. She has a boyfriend, not to mention he's a buff blond white dude who looks like an abercrombie model. Regardless, she still gave me her number at the bar and cuts my hair and does an awesome job at it and tries to hide the fact she has a boyfriend from me. I'm going to be honest, I don't want to fuck her. I want to keep her in my life as a friend. She's hot, she's got a great sense of humor and by fucking her it'll be a short fling and it'll be gone. Not worth it.

I went and got my haircut and told her straight up that I am not looking to romanticize her and that I am only seeking a friendship out of this. I teased her that we're borken up since she's not that cool. She than opened up and told me she has a boyfriend. Good. She's finally being honest and that's a first thing that needs to happen when making friends. She is so damn pretty that it's mesmerizing to look at her. She looks like Kate Beckinsale! AArrgghh, I can't stop thinking about her face. I even spent a night at another girls house last night and today I am thinking about Melissa. I am forcing myself not to text her or email her although I did both already today. I did get a good reply from the texts but come on nigga, you gotta have a tighter game than that. You know better. Haha, so sad.

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