Tuesday Birthday Celebration!

I had to go out on a Tuesday night to celebrate a good friend of mine, Leo's birthday. A big group of us, mostly girls, went out to eat and headed down to PB Bar and Grill.

We drank so damn much over there. I approached 3 girl set and said "Do me a favor, it's my boy's birthday over there. I want you to go up to him and say happy birthday and he'll freak out."

One of the girl said it was her 21st birthday and that he should come up to her since she's the girl and say happy birthday. I said "This is the 20th century. That old school tradition is out the door." I walked away and than gave her the sign to do it. They turned to him and said happy birthday and he chatted with all 3 of them. Wasn't that just nice of me.

I went to the bar to get him a beer. The girl to my right tapped my shoulder and asked if I can asked for a water for her. I gave her a look and said "Why don't you ask one of your boyfriends here to get you the water."

She flipped out. She got all mad and said never mind and started to fuss. Haha. I loved it. I than looked at her over my shoulder and said "Did I offend you? I didn't mean to ruin your whole night. I'll make it up to you. I'm buying my friend a drink right now, I'll buy you a drink. What do you want?"

She said she'll only drink if I take a shot with her. What the hell, I got two shots and we drank. I left her there. 15 minutes later I brought my birthday boy over to her and I told her that she should buy my a boy a shot. She was about to complain so I gave her the 'fuck this' look and started to walk away with my friend. She quickly grabbed him and asked what he wanted. There were too many people and the bartender was taking too long to come by so we just walked away.

I love talking to girls like this. It is so damn fun. It's so damn boring to be so polite and easy. It is so much better to be a bit of a jerk but still a gentlemen in a way and that helps control the situation. If I can narrow all this technique down, it's about taking her frame and making it your own. Using the lines girls usually use and you using them first such as are you going to buy me a drink and negging them. You took what they normally do to guys and feel helpless and attracted towards you since you took her pussy power away from her. It's not about being a pick up artist but to be a man and stimulate the women's mind and body in all the way they desire. You are doing her the favor.

It's friday night right now and I have a dilemma. The 10, Melissa, hair stylist I was talking about is my oneitis. Oneitis is what Styles calls that one girl who you are so fuckin whooped with. She has a boyfriend, not to mention he's a buff blond white dude who looks like an abercrombie model. Regardless, she still gave me her number at the bar and cuts my hair and does an awesome job at it and tries to hide the fact she has a boyfriend from me. I'm going to be honest, I don't want to fuck her. I want to keep her in my life as a friend. She's hot, she's got a great sense of humor and by fucking her it'll be a short fling and it'll be gone. Not worth it.

I went and got my haircut and told her straight up that I am not looking to romanticize her and that I am only seeking a friendship out of this. I teased her that we're borken up since she's not that cool. She than opened up and told me she has a boyfriend. Good. She's finally being honest and that's a first thing that needs to happen when making friends. She is so damn pretty that it's mesmerizing to look at her. She looks like Kate Beckinsale! AArrgghh, I can't stop thinking about her face. I even spent a night at another girls house last night and today I am thinking about Melissa. I am forcing myself not to text her or email her although I did both already today. I did get a good reply from the texts but come on nigga, you gotta have a tighter game than that. You know better. Haha, so sad.