Damage Control

I finally feel free. Middle of 2007, before i knew about Mystery Method and David Deangelo's Cocky and funny technique (great pick up artists), I was a lost chump. I was too damn nice and didn't realize that there is a heavy psychology behind communications with women. It all changed with 'Spears'. Spears was THE blond. She was a 10, awesome personality and down to earth. She liked me and was totally interested and I blew it like a chump. This is embarrassing but I'm going to break it down to you. I did everything that a chump does. I called her too much. I showed too much interest too fast. Embrace yourself, I even bought her a tail light bulb for her car since it was broken and dropped it off at her work with a cup of jamba juice. Isn't life too damn weird? Wasn't that the nice thing to do?

I realize now that timing is crucial. Something like that can be nice but only if you guys are beyond sex. You never want to buy or do things for her that's out of your way if you haven't had sex with her yet.

Well, needless to say, she stopped calling back and responding. I went into her 'creeper' profile I'm sure. Spears was THE reason why I got into teaching myself the Venusian Arts and going out to the field and just going all out weekly. I have to thank her, not personally, for changing my whole frame. My night life and social personality has improved. How do you fuck up what was already given to your table? I had to make changes. It had to be done. I am still learning but am now socializing with 10's like they're just dorky friends that i always had.

Last Wednesday night, after not talking to her for half a year, I asked her to come to see a band with me and as strictly as friends. I needed her to know, I'm not looking for a girlfriend. She hesitated but said yes, so I picked her up. I talked to her like she was my little sister. Teasing and calling her homie and such. Some of my friends were at the concert already so I introduced her to all of them. I was cool to her the whole night. Not being around her too much. Having her buy half of the alcohol tab. I even had her go get me a drink at the bar while I chilled and watched the band with friends. Couple of guys that I met, who were friend of a friend, were hitting on her after asking her if I was her boyfriend. I encouraged and pushed her to it. This two guys were buying her drinks and trying to get with her. I told Spears, they were her new boyfriend and she should get them to buy me drinks.

My frame is pretty awesome. People generally like to talk to me so Spears saw the social skills that I had. Made friends with a band producer, bouncer, my friend's friend and I always introduced her to them. She saw that I didn't need her to have fun. It was late and was time to go. She gave me a little hump with her leg wrapped around me before we stepped out of the bar. I liked it. We walked to my car and she held my arms the whole way. We were a little tipsy so she told me about not wanting a boyfriend and opened up a bit. I told her I can't even think about a girlfriend, which is true. For a while, I do not want to get a girlfriend. I have too much shit going on and am planning on fine tuning my sarging methods. I was at her door for 15 minutes and we kept talking. She didn't want to leave. I nudged her and finally made her go home. I am changing this shit around. I am going to be pushing her away and she is the one that's going to hang with me. How? Not too sure yet but we'll see how it goes from here.