Confidence in Body Language

Building confident body language to pick up the girls.

I realize that after learning and applying myself out in the field, ultimately, showing that you're confidence can take you further than anything else. Don't get me wrong, I do believe in properly sequencing emotions to get the girl but it's becoming bad to sticking to a script all the way through. Especially with PUA becoming so mainstream, we have to be careful not to say to a girl what she's seen on TV.

This week has been probably the best week. I went back to the strip joint and got the bartender's phone number. Looked her up in myspace and she is married with a kid. I think I should stay away from her.

Friday night, big group of us head to Stingeree. The blond girl 'Cha'I'm interested in was there with the group so I entertained her for a while. One of our female friends brings in a short blond 'Bon'and all the guys start talking about how cute she is. No one was doing anything about it so I stepped in. Obviously, since she was part of the group there was no need for any openers. I just said hi and chatted a bit. I tell her to come over and meet the rest of the crew so I threw her to the guys and I lean back.

After saying hi to everyone, she goes to her girlfriend. Couple minutes later, I see her looking at me from a distance. I wave her to come over while I stand there like a rock star all leaning back. She comes over and we talk. She's all over me, touching me and really getting into our conversation. She wanted to find her friend so I tell her I'm going to help and take her hand and lead her to the second floor. I take her to a quiet place and continue our conversation, away from everybody and away from the girl that I like.

I'm playing with fire here. This short blond is close friend who is also a close friend to the girl I like. The problem is that the girl I like is almost non sexual and she's more of a girlfriend material, super easy going, cool as hell, drama free and has her head straight. Fuck it.

Just then the shorty 10 'Mel', that I am attracted to appears out of no where with her friends and surprises me. She text and tried to call me to say hi while she saw me at the club but I didn't hear my cell. Yes! I must've looked so good talking to a cute blond who was all over me while my 10 was watching. I say hi and let the 10 go.

I take the blond back to the group and take some of the guys to walk around. I open up a 3 set and tell the black girl 'I would like to be honest with you. I'm not normally attracted to black women but you are very beautiful'. She was. Light skin, hazel brown eyes and very sweet. You would think that I would get slapped for saying something like that but it's always how you say it and not what you really say. She response by saying she was thinking the same about me since I was Asian. My two boys talk to the other two girls and they instantly hit it off. I get her phone number and urge my friend to get his girl's number which he did. We switched talking to each other's girl and the new girl I was talking to was all over me trying to dance with me. Since my friend already got her number, I behaved accordingly. My friends were impressed on how easy I do it. It's all about that confidence and the sex appeal.

I go back to my group and back to Cha. Her little friend asks me real loud in front of Cha where my new friend is and that she saw us holding hands and walking away. I ignore her comment and whisper to Cha "I'm very concerned that you are on my mind more than I want it to be." She started showing me more interest by dancing with me more.

When you want to tell a girl that you like her, do not ever tell her straight out that you like her. Always uses clever lines like I just used to show that you are still higher in value. Once you let the girl know that you really like her than it's game over for your ass. Straight compliments only work if she already likes you alot or after you guys have fucked. They have the upper hand at that point. I don't even like it when a girl tells me that straight out.

I called the short blond two days later and set up a date for Friday.

I also have have another date Sunday from another girl I got a number from. Saturday night we went out in Encinitas and a brunette girl was waiting outside by herself for a friend. I say hi and talk to her and find out that she's a black belt in Kenpo. I'm a martial artist and have been all my life so this one caught my attention. She showed me her badass tattoo of a dragon on her right side of her body and a tiger on the other. Hot. I ask for her number telling her that we need to continue this discussion at a later time. She had this pleasant surprise about me asking for the number which made me feel good. We'll see how this goes Sunday. Sex can be rough I can imagine.

I don't believe in waiting to call back. I call back the next day while the memory is still fresh. You can show them you're still badass without having to wait so many days. My biggest worry now is do I try and hook up with the short blond Bon knowing it might leak to Cha. Shit. Sometimes single life can be dramatic as well.