Damage Control

I finally feel free. Middle of 2007, before i knew about Mystery Method and David Deangelo's Cocky and funny technique (great pick up artists), I was a lost chump. I was too damn nice and didn't realize that there is a heavy psychology behind communications with women. It all changed with 'Spears'. Spears was THE blond. She was a 10, awesome personality and down to earth. She liked me and was totally interested and I blew it like a chump. This is embarrassing but I'm going to break it down to you. I did everything that a chump does. I called her too much. I showed too much interest too fast. Embrace yourself, I even bought her a tail light bulb for her car since it was broken and dropped it off at her work with a cup of jamba juice. Isn't life too damn weird? Wasn't that the nice thing to do?

I realize now that timing is crucial. Something like that can be nice but only if you guys are beyond sex. You never want to buy or do things for her that's out of your way if you haven't had sex with her yet.

Well, needless to say, she stopped calling back and responding. I went into her 'creeper' profile I'm sure. Spears was THE reason why I got into teaching myself the Venusian Arts and going out to the field and just going all out weekly. I have to thank her, not personally, for changing my whole frame. My night life and social personality has improved. How do you fuck up what was already given to your table? I had to make changes. It had to be done. I am still learning but am now socializing with 10's like they're just dorky friends that i always had.

Last Wednesday night, after not talking to her for half a year, I asked her to come to see a band with me and as strictly as friends. I needed her to know, I'm not looking for a girlfriend. She hesitated but said yes, so I picked her up. I talked to her like she was my little sister. Teasing and calling her homie and such. Some of my friends were at the concert already so I introduced her to all of them. I was cool to her the whole night. Not being around her too much. Having her buy half of the alcohol tab. I even had her go get me a drink at the bar while I chilled and watched the band with friends. Couple of guys that I met, who were friend of a friend, were hitting on her after asking her if I was her boyfriend. I encouraged and pushed her to it. This two guys were buying her drinks and trying to get with her. I told Spears, they were her new boyfriend and she should get them to buy me drinks.

My frame is pretty awesome. People generally like to talk to me so Spears saw the social skills that I had. Made friends with a band producer, bouncer, my friend's friend and I always introduced her to them. She saw that I didn't need her to have fun. It was late and was time to go. She gave me a little hump with her leg wrapped around me before we stepped out of the bar. I liked it. We walked to my car and she held my arms the whole way. We were a little tipsy so she told me about not wanting a boyfriend and opened up a bit. I told her I can't even think about a girlfriend, which is true. For a while, I do not want to get a girlfriend. I have too much shit going on and am planning on fine tuning my sarging methods. I was at her door for 15 minutes and we kept talking. She didn't want to leave. I nudged her and finally made her go home. I am changing this shit around. I am going to be pushing her away and she is the one that's going to hang with me. How? Not too sure yet but we'll see how it goes from here.

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Going out without my wingmen.

Friday night. I had two girls wanting to go watch a movie but I couldn't get ready in time to go with them. My friend had his brother and 2 other guys visit him and were at downtown and wants me to come to see me do my thing. The brother and friends are in their 40's and I don't want to be a monkey for them. That's a No Go. Breezy asks me come over to celebrate her girlfriends birthday in PB. Bingo!

I never went out with Breezy before. She's my massage therapist and a great friend. Very entrepreneurial and we trade business informations. She knows a lot of millionaires. Very cool person and very pretty. Mixed race, exotic, tall and with green/brown/blue (very unique) eyes. Just not my type physically. I am going more towards the white girls, me being Asian and being raised in Guam with no white girls. I just want something different for a while. Girls I'm not used to dating. White girls and yes, especially blonds. If I want a girl that looks exotic and islander like, my babies mama is on top of the list.

Breezy tells me that Sam and his girl is going to pick us up to go down there. She says he's a great photographer. Hey, I can network with the guy. He shows up and I stand to meet the guy. As soon as I see him, it's Sam that I videographed for his wedding.

2 years ago, me and my friends had a wedding video business and his wedding was one of them. I admired his wife. She was very cool and pretty and had a strong sense of frame and pulled me in. No, I don't hit on anyone's wife. A year later, I check up on them and find out they divorced. Well, long story short, I hooked up with his ex wife and I knew Sam was still in love with her. I still like her. Her names Candy which I wrote so much about below. I was about to leave but Breezy made me stay. Fuck it. It'll make a great story.

We go to Johnny V's in PB and there are handful of girls in there. This fucking sucked going out without my wingmen. Nina's friend got a hotel room nearby which was pimped with $1000 of alcohol. It was mostly guys and some of their girlfriend in the group luckily one guy was cool. He was peacocking and we instantly knew where we were coming from. Rest of them were fucking dumb asses. I'm a pretty cool guy good looking and girls approach me at times just from my looks. I always make friends with bouncers, managers and promoters and naturally get them to like me and to hook me up with things. It's all about the strong frame. Having them in your world and ideas. Cool people could sense cool people. Enough tooting my own horn. However, the guys that showed up for the birthday girl and Breezy were all those losers that stand around with beer in hand and have zero games. They also have a bland personality and have loser written all over them. They are so fucking boring, they don't even talk to each other. I know I'm sounding like an ass but you have seen those guys that we all desperately don't want to become.

Fuck it, I am walking around by myself. I get my 'beautiful' drink and walk around the dance floor. This girl that was dancing with a guy started putting her back to me and started rubbing me. I thought it was cool so I just stood there not even minding it. Breezy and birthday girl comes by and I tell them I'm making friends with this couple. Breezy and bday girl walks off having fun. This was fucking crazy! The guy dancing with the girl says to me that he likes girls and guys and gave me that look! What the Fuck. I was disgusted and complimented as the same time. Haha. I walked off instantly.

I feel so damn uncomfortable just walking around by myself. I spent too much energy last night. No excuses bitch. Just then a big group of girls came by and one of the girl recognized me and said hi and introduced one of the girl. The one that knows me isn't attractive and she is my neighbor blond's close friend. My neighbor and her refers to me as the 'Hot Asian Neighbor'. I wasn't going to hit on any of this girls. You don't fuck with the girl friends of the girl you're kinda gaming. Such a shame. I walk off.

I noticed a hot blond sitting by herself taking a break from her girl and guy friends from earlier. 5'5", big exposed cleavage, nice apple bottom ass. I was attracted to her but my energy isn't there. Regardless, I go and say hi. She kinda pulls back and I told her I thought she was cool and just wanted to know her a bit. After just a minute of blah blah's I excused myself. I wasn't feeling it and she wasn't feeling me. I just don't have the energy right now. I'm in chill mode. So sad.

I go to my group and introduce myself to 2 girls that are single but are below 6 in my rating but what the heck. I'm not going anywhere so I have to start the engine somehow. We get shots and after 2 shots and chatting with the 2 girls, my energy is up. This two girls were into me. One of them talking to me with her boobs rubbing on my arm. I love that kino the best. I say what's up to Sam and his girl and his girl was flirty. She's touching breezy's ass and bumping me with her own ass. No, I'm not going to try to take this girl from him which would've been too damn easy. I'm not that much of an asshole. I laugh and walk away from the mess.

I go outside to smoke and notice the hot blond with her guy and girl friends. I quickly start conversations with some guys outside. Now they look like they're my crew. The blond one needed a smoke so I offer her mine but her girlfriend took it from me. I told her it wasn't for her but for her friend so I take it back and move away. Her friend says she's not impressed. A little later, as they walk pass me to go inside, I whisper to the blond she was way too cute and fun. She high fives me. I can tell she was interested since she was holding my hands for a while but her friends were trying to push her in the door. Oh well. I missed this one.

It was near closing time at this point. I got my jacket and sit next to some of the birthday crew. Two cute girls were sitting nearby so I instantly start talking to them. I ask them why they look like they're not having fun. Did they met the guy of their dreams. If they smoke gonja. They're from San Francisco and one of them loves to smoke and claims to have the real shit compared to San Diego shit. Just my luck. I was running low and needed someone for a hook up. I get her number but I tell her it's strictly for business and no funny business. She makes me call her so she can have mine. I give her a hug sn says she's my new best friend and I go out side to wait for the rest of the birthday crew. The gonja girl, Gillian, comes out and asks for a lighter. Haha, trying to play it cool I see. The two ask if I was on Yayo. No I'm not, I'm just natually energized. I invite them to the hotel 3 blocks away. I walk arm to arm with Gillian. The other one was cuter with a tighter body but later I find out Gillian's brother is her boyfriend.

We're at the hotel and everybody starts to drink more. Not me. I have to drive. At this point, the girl that was rubbing on my arms with the boobs have remorse against me and push me away since she was watching me the whole night talking to this other two cute girls. I thought she was cool but never mind her.

I can see that Gillian's friend was into me and I was so fucking into her. I ask what would Gillian do if her friend were to kiss a guy at a club because she was too drunk. Will she tell on her brother? She says no, that he should be lucky to have a girl like 'Brianna' and that she can get almost any guy that she wants. Brianna asks me if I think that she can get almost any guy. I tell her I don't have an opinion and give her a wink. She loved it. Gillian kept getting phone calls all night from this pussy whooped guy. She says that guy should only call once and if the girl is interested she'll call back. Note taken.

Security comes and we have to all leave. No crazy shit happened tonight but it was so damn fun. I have to leave since Breezy was my ride. I kiss the girls on the cheek and tap their ass goodbye and Gillian tells me to call her. She is my new hookup so I will be seeing her for sho.



I went outside to smoke

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What a mess!

Thursday night, Corrida and I headed to Yogis in Encinitas. This place was swarming with pretty girls left and right. So bizarre to see any place with more girls and not to mention that most of them were cute.

As soon as we walked in, we headed to the bar and I noticed an acquaintance, Lauren at the bar. I went up to her and she was surprised to see me. Now, I never met her in person before. She found my photography site and have acquired about it. She is a cute blond. 5'7" tall, blue eyes, nice body and loves to dance. She taught me the 'lawn mower' dance. Don't ask how that is cause you don't want to do it on the dance floor unless you want to get noticed in a bad way:) We quickly hit it off and the chemistry was there. Our conversations were instantly fun without having to play any games with her. I always made sure I didn't give her easy answers and leaned back so she had to move closer to me to talk to me. She asked for my number but I didn't ask for hers. It must've been because girls are now starting to ask for my number and that nice surprise makes me forget that I was gaming her and trying get her number.

After chatting with her for a while, I excused myself and started to walk around the bar. I think this might've been bad since the next time I saw her again, she pulled that trick on me. How do you pull off walking away without looking like a dog in search and yet give her space to let her know I am not 'clingy'. Tough one. (I messaged her next day that what were the chances that I would see her out and what are the chances that she was so fun and cool. I told her she was a dork for leaving without saying bye and that she has minus 1 points and then asked for her number so I can maybe text so we can 'accidentally' meet up again. She gave me her number.)

This night was such a wreck and fun. I decided to just say what was on my mind and see what works and what doesn't. I got my ears full for sure.

I told one girl that she pulled off the nerdy look really well with the cute glasses. She quickly responded by telling me that with that kind of line, I won't be able to pick up chicks. Ouch. Haha. So no instant neggers.

One girl asked if my friend can take there photos for them. I told them he charges. "How much?" she asked. $2.99. She said she'll take it. I also busted out my camera and took photos with the three girls also. Funny how girls love to take photos and act like they are your buddy when taking photos. Note to self: don't over do the money thing.

I told another girl that she was too tall for me and what can she do to get my attention. She bent down and asked if that was good enough. I said it'll do. Chatted a bit and left her. Cute but way too tall for me.

Went outside to smoke and two blond girls were hanging out. I asked for a light and started talking with them. I told them that I bet that they're from the east coast on a farm. They were upset with this line and told me that I was trying too hard to figure things out and that I should listen more. Wow. Only 5 minutes into talking and they were talking to me like we're bad couple. It was still fun.

Went back inside, got another drink and talked to three cute mexican girls. I told one girl that she wears her ring on her thumb because she is naturally dominant. The thumb represents Zeus and most War generals and dominating figures usually wear rings on their thumb. I told her it must've been her idea to come to this bar. I was right. She got all excited and told her other friends and than asked for my number. I gave it to her but stupid me, didn't get her number. I am juggling a handful right now so I don't need anymore just yet. Numbers are too easy to get. Only really care about the 10's number.

This thick blond girl caught my eye. I told Corrida, I wanted her. It must've been that the first sex I had was from a thick girl. When I say thick I'm talking more big boned and nice thick ass and great curves, not fat or chunky or sloppy. He told me to go talk to her. I went up and asked if she was from Hawaii since she had a flower in her ear. She said she's never been outside of San Diego. I told her too bad. Her friend complemented my tattoo and I quickly make friends with her. Another guy was chilling with them and I quickly made friends with him. He even guessed that I was from Guam. I was amazed. The blond girl started dancing all over me. I danced a bit and stopped. Before they left, I asked for her email and told her I'll write to her sometimes. She seemed happy about that and gave me her email address.

This was an interesting night. A lot has happened that I haven't even written down but the point is that I talked to as many cute girls that i can without feeling any remorse from the ones that blew me out and just having fun. Interesting how the cuter they are, the more you should neg them and the less pretty they are, more compliments will flatter them. Always open with something nice to say. Lesson learned.

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Tuesday Birthday Celebration!

I had to go out on a Tuesday night to celebrate a good friend of mine, Leo's birthday. A big group of us, mostly girls, went out to eat and headed down to PB Bar and Grill.

We drank so damn much over there. I approached 3 girl set and said "Do me a favor, it's my boy's birthday over there. I want you to go up to him and say happy birthday and he'll freak out."

One of the girl said it was her 21st birthday and that he should come up to her since she's the girl and say happy birthday. I said "This is the 20th century. That old school tradition is out the door." I walked away and than gave her the sign to do it. They turned to him and said happy birthday and he chatted with all 3 of them. Wasn't that just nice of me.

I went to the bar to get him a beer. The girl to my right tapped my shoulder and asked if I can asked for a water for her. I gave her a look and said "Why don't you ask one of your boyfriends here to get you the water."

She flipped out. She got all mad and said never mind and started to fuss. Haha. I loved it. I than looked at her over my shoulder and said "Did I offend you? I didn't mean to ruin your whole night. I'll make it up to you. I'm buying my friend a drink right now, I'll buy you a drink. What do you want?"

She said she'll only drink if I take a shot with her. What the hell, I got two shots and we drank. I left her there. 15 minutes later I brought my birthday boy over to her and I told her that she should buy my a boy a shot. She was about to complain so I gave her the 'fuck this' look and started to walk away with my friend. She quickly grabbed him and asked what he wanted. There were too many people and the bartender was taking too long to come by so we just walked away.

I love talking to girls like this. It is so damn fun. It's so damn boring to be so polite and easy. It is so much better to be a bit of a jerk but still a gentlemen in a way and that helps control the situation. If I can narrow all this technique down, it's about taking her frame and making it your own. Using the lines girls usually use and you using them first such as are you going to buy me a drink and negging them. You took what they normally do to guys and feel helpless and attracted towards you since you took her pussy power away from her. It's not about being a pick up artist but to be a man and stimulate the women's mind and body in all the way they desire. You are doing her the favor.

It's friday night right now and I have a dilemma. The 10, Melissa, hair stylist I was talking about is my oneitis. Oneitis is what Styles calls that one girl who you are so fuckin whooped with. She has a boyfriend, not to mention he's a buff blond white dude who looks like an abercrombie model. Regardless, she still gave me her number at the bar and cuts my hair and does an awesome job at it and tries to hide the fact she has a boyfriend from me. I'm going to be honest, I don't want to fuck her. I want to keep her in my life as a friend. She's hot, she's got a great sense of humor and by fucking her it'll be a short fling and it'll be gone. Not worth it.

I went and got my haircut and told her straight up that I am not looking to romanticize her and that I am only seeking a friendship out of this. I teased her that we're borken up since she's not that cool. She than opened up and told me she has a boyfriend. Good. She's finally being honest and that's a first thing that needs to happen when making friends. She is so damn pretty that it's mesmerizing to look at her. She looks like Kate Beckinsale! AArrgghh, I can't stop thinking about her face. I even spent a night at another girls house last night and today I am thinking about Melissa. I am forcing myself not to text her or email her although I did both already today. I did get a good reply from the texts but come on nigga, you gotta have a tighter game than that. You know better. Haha, so sad.

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Undercover Alpha Male

This week has been good. Damn, once the waves come in, they turn into a tsunami. This week was another badass week. I started out spending a night at Candy's house and this time, I just suggested we walk around her neighborhood. We walked and talked about life once again. I held her hands. I told her about my goals and she told me about her other date. She was dating this big ex NFL player and man he was so damn pussy whooped. He told her he wanted to have kids with her and that she was the best girl he's ever met. She was turned off by him instantly after only couple of dates. He even called when I was hanging out with her. She ignored his phone call.

Isn't it sad that even the biggest 'alpha male' like person can be the biggest pussy? Understanding women is a whole another level of education us men need to go through.

Never tell a girl that bullshit. Do not put her in the highest pedestal please. Give her a little than take it right away. Take two steps forward and then one step back. Don't ever, EVER give in. If you want to say something like that, immediately include a ball busting comment.

Example: 'You are very beautiful but beauty is really common. What kind of goals do you have? What values do you have? ect."

It's like that story of Samson in the bible. The girl would keep asking him what is his week point and Samson would give her a little lie. The girl would call (with her iPhone) the Palestine's to get Samson and say, "Samson, get up the Palestine's are coming to kill you!" Samson would wake up and kill the soldiers. This went on for many days, the girl asking what his weakness was and Samson telling a little lie and ending up killing the soldiers when they came for him. Finally, Samson gave in and told the girl if she cut all his hair off, he will lose his incredible strength. Sure enough, she cut his hair and Samson got arrested.

Moral of the story is damn obvious and if you don't know it, go slap yourself silly. Never give in. Girls will always test you and that's their way of knowing if they can trust you or if you are what they are looking for. That girl didn't need his weakness. She would've been with him for a long time I'm sure. Don't buckle under pressure.

Back to Candy. We had a fun time just walking around with me going to Jamba Juice, making jokes and walking around inside a market. She even called me an undercover Alpha male and told me I had game. Ain't that the shit. She said undercover alpha male was a gentleman but beneath it is an dominating man. I loved it. I spent the night and left early in the morning. Great night. She is so damn smart, fun, attractive and great in bed. Yes girls have to be great in bed too. Forget those girls who just lie there like a cold fish. Don't need em. My hands can do better than that. Haha.

Next night, my neighbor JJ came over to hang out with me. She told me she doesn't like big dicks since it hurts her and that she was told that Asian guys would be perfect for her because of the small penises. Haha. Such bullshit! I love it. Us unlucky Asians. Haha, we can't win em all. Luckily we know kung fu and math. This reminds me of my friend. He's black and he always busts me saying that I have to have good conversations with girls since my dick can't keep them attached. Hahaha. Oh I miss my friend. Note to self, call the brotha.

I have been negging this girl like crazy and she loves it. She constantly talks about sexual topics and I get a strong sexual vibe from her.

I teased about how her house is so messy that I got lost walking to her kitchen. That she was living with her cats and not the other way around. That too bad she's white and can't dance due to it. That I bet the second cat pee stain on her couch is her pee after a night of drinking and coming home yelling at her cats "so you think you own this house, fuck you cats! Take this!" Than she pees on the couch. I sent her home after having fun conversations and more busting balls. My next move it to talk to her in a more serious tone and controlling the frame. Maybe, we'll see.

We have to control the outcome and as a man, you should always keep the control. You wussy guys have to snap out of that mind state and step into your own world and into man hood. Imagine how women fell in love back in the cavemen days. Those guys were men. They took what they wanted and also protected the woman and killed wild animals to feed her. Even had to kill other guys to keep her but I'm not saying do exactly what they do, just the concept behind it. I'm sure the cavemen didn't say things like:
"Can I buy you a drink?"
"Excuse me, can I ask you a question?"
"Would you like to go out with me?"

Stop the pussiness and start with the manliness. Change those lines to:
"Hey, I'm buying my homie a drink, I might as well get you something since you look so lonely, what do you want?"
"Why are you staring at me so hard? Do you have a staring problem or is it just with guys like me?"
"I'm going to go buy a gift for a friend, come with me and help me decide."

More to come baby.

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Weekend events.

I had a blond over, I'll call her JJ, and we talked for hours about life, religion and dating. This cutie got an online dating account and went to close to 50 dates and they were all the same. Dinner, interview like questions, blah blah blah. No I didn't meet her online. She's my new neighbor. JJ's a 7 to me but she was a blond so to me there are in a different category. Damn blond fetishes. Damn Asians liking blonds:) It's sad to see the guys all fucking up and being so damn pussy whooped. I was there. I understand the poor bastards. Then again, if we didn't have so much whooped dudes, it wouldn't be this easy to hook up with girls.

JJ did meet couple that she hooked up with for a short relationship but didn't work out in the end. I told her, I'm not looking to get into a relationship and that I have too much going on in my life and there's no room for it. She came off to me as being too damn innocent but towards the end, as it was getting late, she started throwing lines like "you're too innocent for me" and "Of course I have sexual needs". Thank goodness.

If you read every damn profile of what a woman wants, it's the same concept but with different wording. Many guys would ask them, how can it be possible that you want this but you want that. I'm going to break it down to you fellas. Girls wants a gentleman but wants to be mentally stimulated. They want to feel secured and that we are 'MEN' not wussies. Our job is to make them laugh, cry, get upset, feel happy and sad plus all the emotions that us humans enjoy. Whether it's a downer or an upper, we humans are the way we are due to the emotions that we go through.

Get out of the box. Don't be afraid to get rejected. Remember, they are rejecting your approach and the way you represent yourself but not you as a person. You can always work on improving your persona. No matter how many times you approach a woman, it will always make you feel nervous. That will never ever go away. I have approached many woman within this past 3 months and I still tend to hold back a bit.

The answer to handling your fear to accept that you have the fear and that it's just the way it is so go on and do something about it you damn wuss:)

Oh, by the way, I sent JJ home after we talked. I'm not trying to fuck her the first night we hang out. She's sensitive and very emotional so I have to be careful not to create any neighbor drama. She's fun. She tickled me, played with me and opened up to me. We'll be hanging out more.

So Saturday rolls around and me and 3 other boys, including Corrida head to the clubs up in North County. We have two different groups of friends that'll meet us later at another location, coincidently, all in the same place. We head to Yogis and see that there are a good number of girls there. We were just warming up so we just drank 1 drink and headed out to the other club where all our acquaintances were at.

I don't know why, I didn't approach any girls at Yogis. There were alot of cute girls. Some that I think would be and extraordinary challenges to me. Maybe because it was too early. There is no reason, I just felt uncomfortable approaching. Everybody was just rolling in, everybody was white (we were 1 Asian guy and 3 mexican dudes) and nobody was dancing so the vibe was not that great to begin with. Excuses. Lets move on.

We get to our second spot and I head to the bar to get my boys a drink. A girl was next to me and I said something and she moved back to her boyfriend, which was right behind me. I made small talks with the guy and he was cool. After all, he was with 3 other girls. I waited for my bartender for a minute and then asked this other girl next to me if that (pointed across the room) was an extra room or a reflection. She said it was a reflection and started dancing all silly to show herself in the mirror. Silly.

I always start with small talks to get the engine started.

As I'm still waiting for the bartender, across the bar were two decent looking girls. One of them caught my eyes and it was a staring contest. She was staring so damn hard but after 10 seconds of solid staring she looked away and I noticed her talking to her friend about me. Corrida noticed this.

We got our drinks and went to chill with our other group. The second group were my neighbor JJ's group. JJ came by looking for me and we started chit chatting. I joked with her, teased her she should learn how to dance and that she needs something to give to the table, kino escalated her, met her friends and then gave her a quick peck on the lips before she went away.

She later told me she was talking about me to her friends, telling them that I was her hot Asian neighbor. That's how I roll:)

The girl I stared down earlier, had her group of friends nearby so we all started talking to them. They were celebrating this short Asian girls birthday. The girl I stared down seems to be used to getting attention so I ignored her. I wasn't in the mood to get her so I backed down. My friend was hooking me up with a drink and the birthday girl yelled out that she wanted one also. My friend said that she didn't even have to say anything and that he'll get her one since it's her birthday.

Me: "I would not buy you a drink that easily."
Asian girl: "Why, you only buy drinks for hot girls?"
Me: "Beauties got nothing to do with it, it's if we can have a connection. Give me couple things you do that you are proud about?"
Asian girl: "blah blah blah."

Her friend tapped me on my arm and told me that I was really fun. They got up to dance and the girl I was ignoring and that stared me down grabbed me. The asian girl grabbed me as well, so I pulled away and tagged along. We danced a bit and seemed like the asian girl and her friend was battling to get my attention. This can get uncomfortable between the two girls so I got off the dance floor. I didn't feel like dancing.

The whole night, I never got any of their names. If you're not going to close them, then getting there name is just a waste of breath to me and boring. I forget people names instantly as they tell me anyways.

Since our group of friends were leaving, we left the place also and went to Denny's for some late night breakfast. There was a girl that was at the club that like my friend, Polo, and Polo had liked her for the longest of time but dated her older sister in the past so had to keep it cool. It was 2am and Polo gets a text message saying, "I made it home safely. I'm going to sleep. Good night." We all sat there wondering what would be a good response instead of the typical, 'you too and good night bullshit'.

Text messaging correctly is important. I fuckin lost a girl's interest, a 10 by they way, with one damn message! Now it's going to take extra effort to get that back!

Corrida said to write, "I'll be home soon honey. Haha." I thought it was clever and cocky. I'm sure she got a kick out of that one. Corrida told us that the staring girl asked for his name and after he told her she quickly lost interest. Lesson learned. With a boring questions like that, always come up with something cocky and funny.

Lesson leaned.

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San Diego Gaslamp.

I wanted to start this post by giving the respects to Mystery, Styles and Deangelo for educating all the men around the world in how to seduce woman. We need all the help we can get in psychology of woman. We don't want to settle for what we can get and we don't want to feel lucky. For all my life, I thought it had to do with luck and them just liking you for your looks, power and money. I was wrong. If you can stimulate woman and give her the psychological excitement, she would be more than willing to be yours. I have a female friend who went on a date with this young rich and famous author. She was the one that went after him and she got through to get a date with him. She's a badass. Anyways, after the date, the guy took her hand and just placed it on his peepee. She got quickly turned off and went home. One fucked up move or word than it's all over. We have to be so damn fucking smooth.

Friday night at the gaslamp:

I decided to go out by myself tonight. All my friends were doing something or just didn't want to go out. I had one friend tell me his group was going to get a VIP table at Sins, so I thought I'd be better off checking that spot out than being home alone.

Going out alone is always unusual since we're not used to it but I have been enjoying it very much. As soon as I got there, while I was walking by myself to Sins, this dude Jason just started small talks with me as we were both headed to the same club. He knew the promoters so he got me in for free and met up with some of his crew. He was a cool cat. Dressed well and I could see he'd make a good wingman.

This is something I always do when I go out myself. I try to find a group that I can instantly becomes friends with. I am lucky for the fact that I seem to be very approachable for everybody. They have been approaching me. I even took my sister to Chili's and a big group said that we should join there table. I was told that I draw people in to me. I'm a social person naturally.

I get a drink and I chill next to the crew and I notice a blond and a brunette. I liked the blond so I opened her up.

Me: "Why don't you go up to that dance floor and show that asian girl how white girls do it."

I'm asian so I can get away with saying things like that.

Blond: "No, you go up there. "
Me: "If I go up there, you have to put a dollar on my back pocket."
Blond: "I'll give you five dollars."

With a brotha next to me giving the go ahead, I go up there a dance a little and she gave me the 5 bucks and smacked my ass and I quickly got down. I enjoy dancing.

I talk to her a bit and I tell the guys lets move to another location. I don't want to stay around the two girls. I am showing them that I don't care to be around them all the time. I get another drink and go dance with another girl for a bit. I than went back and brought the girls to the VIP table that my other friends had.

Free drinks all night! I introduced the girls and one of the guy that I kinda know, quickly took the blond. That's so fucked up. My first choice quickly gone. It's alright, he didn't know I was trying to mack on her anyways. I would hate to have a friend take a girl from me but then again I have done that to my brother in the past. I know that's bad and I do feel bad about it but he does just as well if not better on communicating with girls so it doesn't bother me too much. We always try to show off and challenge each other. I'm a fucking superman when he's with me. A girl once even told us we should be in a calendar. Haha. Crazy.

Luckily the brunette was just as cute. I just prefer blonds. I teased the brunette. Told her to go away. Dance with her all seductive than push her away as she gets really into it. Told her to quit acting so drink and clumsy or the bouncer will kick her out. She loved it. She even asked if I lived nearby. This girl wanted to go home with me. Very cool.

She would kiss me and push me away than kiss me again. This went on all night. She finally told me she had a boyfriend and that she's being bad. I told her that she was the one that's making me do bad things. I have learned that you can never make a girl feel like she's doing something slutty. My method was to try to take that guilt away from her and to make me the guilty one.

I honestly couldn't care that she had a boyfriend. Even better. I don't want to get in a relationship for a while so a girl that will not get attached is the best kind. I'm playing with fire but it's so damn fun. This is Southern California where faithfulness is close to zero. Sad but true.

I told her that I was only going to give her a good conversation and nothing else. She told me to sit down so she can give me a lap dance. Fucking cool.

Night came to an end and I took off without any number. It was a good night. It does suck that I didn't get the blond since she was single and she was digging me from the first place but not apparently hard enough. So I'm back at the drawing board. What could I have done to make the outcome the way I want it to be. The blond was the one that kept pulling me to her to talk to me. Maybe it was because I was trying to bring the brunette into the conversation or to dance with both of me and the blond. I didn't want to leave her alone or I thought the brunette will pull the blond from me, which usually happens. I thought making the blond feel less special might have worked but because I have already went past the seduction phase, she got the wrong impression. Maybe it's because I kissed the blond way too early. It was only a little peck on the lips. This happened when she kept talking to me and pulling me so damn close to her lips. Maybe it was because I kept leaving her. Not all girls are the same and one technique will not work on all girls.

I am going out with Corrida and some friends tonight to another club in Gaslamp. We'll see what we have in store for tonight.

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Phenomenal Weekend.

Man this weekend was so damn good. Friday night I invited Candy over to help her recover a data from her CF card. This is photography stuff. I've been wanting this girl for months but I had to make sure I did it right so I was cautious. I even called Wednesday without leaving a message and she later told me that it wasn't cool to do that. Note to self, call a lot less frequent (as in once every week and a half) and leave a message.

She was over and I gave her a glass of wine. Instead of eating out, we went to the grocery store to buy some salad and sandwich stuff so we can eat in. We ate and chatted. I asked her her if she wanted to kiss me. She hesitated and started mumbling as if trying to figure out what to say. I just went for it and gave her a kiss. I like to think that I'm a good kisser. I always mix it up and am very passionate. Being a good kisser is so important since they can sense what kind of lover you can be.

Candy has been putting up this guard against me for so long, thinking I might be like all guys who gets pussy whooped in lightning speed. All you pussy whooped dudes (which is 90% of the population) are ruining it for all of us but then again, it is also a balance in life. If there were no whooped dudes to make the girls feel protective than we'll all be fucking easily and have babies like how China have it and cause the government to pay us not to have babies anymore. China is crazy like that.

Note to self: Do things to let the girls know that I don't need them and am not interested in getting attached but do desire their body. They like that.

After 15 minutes of making out, I stopped her to tell her what I want out of this. Just fucking and maintaing our friendship and business relationship but that's it. I than took her to my room and fucked her for 2 fuckin hours! I have never fucked so damn good and long before. She was just so damn into it that I got into it. I am so damn tired of girls who don't know how to fuck! Most girls just lie there thinking your dick will get hard by looking at it and that having the pussy in view like that will give us guys a thrill. Bitch please. I need to be stimulated too. Just looking at pussy's just don't do it anymore for me.

Candy even stopped me in the middle to make sure there were no camcorders since we were fucking like porno stars. I put that pussy to sleep and Candy was nice enough to finish me off even though she was tired. She fucking rocks! I know I shouldn't have done this but next day, I text messaged her telling her that it was the best fuck I ever because it really was the best fuck I ever had. She responded with 'thanks for being honest and yes it was phenomenal.'

I'll wait a week or two before I contact her again:)

So Saturday comes by and my home boy Corrida gets two girls to go out with us so we pick them up at 10pm. They were 5's, a Columbian and a Mexican. Luckily for them, they had booty and were really fun from the start. We negged them all night. Told one of them they they are having a difficult time coming in my two door accord with that big ol booty. It went on all night.

Teasing a girl in a playful way works like magic. I have a new co worker and I teased her from the start, calling her shorty and telling her I didn't see her most of the day since she was out of my line of sight. I even said to her 'why are you always around me when I tease you so much.' She said she didn't know why and probably didn't understand that girls constantly needs to prove that they are worthy. So to all you guys who compliments girls, STOP! If you do compliment, immediately throw something in like 'but what more can you offer?' kind of talk.

I felt invincible that night. We went to a Karaoke place first and I sang couple of songs and even closed a phone number from a tall blond. She was a cutie and was with another girl. They were so into us and wanted to hang with us but we were already with two other girls. I toldl one of the girl to come up and dance with me and took her by the hand and show her how it's done.

Always take the girl by the hand. Never ask to dance, act like they already want to dance and you are just going to take them. Have a mental mind that you are the man and that you know what you want and that all girls wants to be lead. They want to be taken care of. Let them know that what they want is you and for you to take charge of there sexual emotion without being upfront about it. So much damn game to play to get it right but it's worth it. They are out there wanting to meet guys. You are only doing what they want. Charmed, turned on, entertained and satisfied.

In the middle of the night I get a text from the blond who drives a Mercedes (so I'll call her Mercedes) saying she wants to hang out with me soon. I was on fire and yes, I was also drunk:)

We than went to another dance club near by and spent an hour dancing and mingling around. Those two girls saw me talk to couple different girls and even saw me get a phone number. I wanted them to know that we don't need them but there presence is an entertainment to us. They wanted to hang out longer but I insisted that i drop them off and I go home to sleep. I had work the next day and I was way too tired from the previous night.

Sunday I was suppose to hang out with the 10 I picked up last couple of weeks ago but she flaked. She looks like Kate Beckinsale. I told her she was a brat and that she owed me dinner for it. I'll wait for a whole week before I even text or email her. Note to self: Neg the shit out of her. I checked her out in myspace and she has a boyfriend who's tall, blond, abercrombie model looking dude but she hasn't said anything about him to me. I'm sure he was all looks and she wanted someone to stimulate her mind and body. I'm thinking I can do that for her and I couldn't care less if she has a boyfriend. As long as I don't know him it's all game. I'm out to look for some fun time. I don't have time to get into a relationship. I have 3 small business to run and a full time job. Girlfriend will only slow me down. Man, I hope I never meet that one who gets me whooped. Like Styles said in his book, Game, oneitis. We'll see how this week goes.

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Tuesday Massage and Thursday night at Karaoke bar.

I have a massage therapist who gives me massages in exchange of me helping her with some of her business ideas. The good thing about this relationship is that we get along so damn well that she actually releases my tension and stress without having to fuck me. She is beautiful, half white and Philippino and she has a bachelor degree and massage certification. I get to be butt naked and get an amazing hour massage and sometimes, I even smoke a little bud before the massage and man is it mind blowing. It's like an hour of orgasm and I get this weekly. My life is exactly where I want it to be right now.

Thursday night comes around and I am bored at 10pm after working all day and decide to just go down the street to a Karaoke Bar by myself. I actually got used to rolling out by myself cause there are times when my friends can't or won't go out. Of course in order to make this work, you will have to be very sociable. I got into this tiny bar and there were about 10 people in there. Surprisingly there were some cuties in there. I got myself a beer and an older woman started small talks with me. One thing about me, I enjoy talking to people and I don't discriminate at all. I am open to all people talking to me:0) I excuse myself and go grab a karaoke book. They later come by, grab me and have there way with me on the dance floor. I was molested and although they were 2's and 3's (which I wouldn't fuck) I had fun being treated like a piece of meat. I sit down and than a 50 year old woman comes to talk to me. We're just talking and her husband comes by kinda worried since she was drunk and all and was talking too close to me so I quickly make friends with him and try to ignore a little bit but still be nice. Crazy.

Short while later a blond goes up to sing. She sang really well so I go up to her after and tell her she did an awesome job than I am immediately next to sing. She was really impressed and we start talking. Her crew comes and talks to me and now I have made some karaoke friends. I think she was with one of the guy there but I wasn't sure because the next song she sang she ket on looking at me as if she was singing to me. I actually liked the guy that she might've been with so I don't even bother with flirting with her and just enjoy the group's company. I'm not in the mood to sarge hard.

I am next to sing again and this time the girl that's a 3 comes to me and starts getting nasty on me. The DJ throws a towel at her and one of the blonds friends come to get her off me and than the bartender girl had to come and ask her to scoot back. Haha, that shit was so funny. I didn't even miss a beat of the song either. I felt kinda bad for her so I go up to her and give her a high five and then she tries to kiss me. I quickly moved my head to the left and then felt a wet sloppy kiss on my cheek. I really didn't mind what she was doing but apparently people thought she was too nasty for me:) haha. We go out to smoke and everybody is talking shit about her, except for me. The 3 comes out and tries to get included in the conversation and the group of cuties are blocking her hard. The 3 grabs my hand and tries to pull me to the side of the bar, I'm sure to make out but I tug back bit to let her know it ain't happening. I say bye to everyone and went home.

The night was fun and I got to practice my karaoke singing. This weekend is going to be fucking great. Friday night I have a second date with Candy, Saturday my friend 'Corrida', has a new female friend who wants to hang out and she said she'll be bringing other cute girlfriends and Sunday, I am photographing a 10 and am having dinner with her after. Ooh, one day I will write about girl that I fucked right after I photographed her and I don't even remember her name. That was so damn hot. To be continued...

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This week of living my single life.

This week was pretty good for me. I had multiple dates and I think they all went pretty well. I'll start with Thursday.

Thursday:
My manager likes me so she is trying to hook me up with her daughter which is a major compliment. I'm going to call her Mill. I invited her over to hang out with me thursday night. She ended up coming over at midnight. Damn it was late. All we did was just talk and since she loved to dance, I had her dance for me all night. Man, she knew how to shake that ass. I was so freaken aroused but I had to keep my cool. She is my new neighbor. I can't have sex with someone who are going to be near you at all times too early. I want to make sure that we are cool with each other before any sex happens. If you want to maintain friendships after having sex with a girl, you have to make sure you spend enough time with her and build that comfort. Maybe around 8 hours altogether. Not in a day but over multiple days. Anyways, Mill invited me over to her place and we just cuddled. I got to horny so I excused myself and went home. Still had an awesome time.

Friday:
I got invited to a house party by a blonde girl that I've been somewhat interested in. I thought she was cute but didn't really know her personally. This house party was pretty awesome. There were at least 10 single girls and only couple of single guys. The rest were couples. My friend and I were even talking to 2 blond girls who seem down but i couldn't be flirting with other girls when I was there for Shaney so I had to keep my cool. We drank, we all talked about sex that was as far as it went. I had two other girls there that were giving me hard signs of interests but I had to behave. I went home after a fun night out. There is going to be a actual date later with Shaney.

Saturday:
I had my favorite girl, Candy come hang with me saturday night. She came over at 8 and I took her to a Korean restaurant. She is a smart girl not to mention really cute. Our conversations were so damn good. We talked about life, religion, relationships and business. I took her to a local karaoke bar and made her sing a song. She's a good singer. I sand my song by UB40 and had some other group of girls scream for me. That impressed Candy. We drank my usual drink, Beautiful and headed to my place. I put on Mission Impossible 3 in HD and cuddled as we watched.

A tip: when you're watching a movie together and you know you want to get down, make sure you make the moves before the movie is over. If you haven't done anything and the movie is over, her mentality to fuck will also be over with it.

Anyways, I told her that I want to keep my friendly and business relationship with her so we weren't going to have sex but I would love to have her spend the night. It is so damn freakin difficult to sleep with a hard on but I somewhat managed. That shit was rough. I had an awesome time with her and I told her I wanted to do it again.

I am not about sleeping with as much girls as I can. I am all about enjoying their company and having sex when it's good for both of us. I don't want to get married but maybe one day I can meet the one that makes me want to. I don't want a girlfriend since I have so much goals in my life such as my job, and my own businesses but is I can find someone who can support me without slowing me down than I can settle for that. She also has to be really beautiful in my eyes as well. We'll see how next week goes.

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Thursday night out with the whole crew!

Thursday night was the shit! I was on it like a motha fucka. 4 guys and 4 girls went to downtown to get our drink on. This tiny hole in the wall in downtown san diego and there must've been only 7 other people hanging out. We said what the heck and started drinking. I even smoked a little bud outside with some of them. I started the night just laughing and making fun of one of our girls on how white she was. You know how other race imitates white talk and they all have this pitchy voice all exaggerated. Well I caught this girl talking like that and I was teasing her all night about it. She loved it. Within 30 minutes, a huge group of people walked in the bar. Most of them were asians, like myself and there were two cute 'non asian' girls with them.

One of the girl was a fuckin 10! I walked right next to her and said, "how the hell did you end up with all Asians. You almost don't belong here!" Of course I said this with a smile and showed her I was just teasing. She responded well and we talked up a storm. My friends were all watching and trying to assess the situation. What can Logan do to make sure he does this right. I kino escalate by putting my arms around her and telling her I'm going to take her to this cool Guamanian restaurant. She wanted to go. She told me she was a hair stylist and I asked if my hair style was okay since I cut them myself. She said she loved it. I told her she was going to be my hair stylist but if she messes it up, she's going to get it. My friend came by to buy a drink by the bar and I introduced her to him and I told him that her and I go way back. She responded, oh yeah, we go way back. She gave me her card and I excused myself and went to my friends. Yo unever want to stay too long. Remember you have things to do and not just cling onto the hot one. I went outside and chatted with the asian guys. They were all cool. The two 'non asian' girls came out and as a joke I introduced them to the guys (they were all in one group). I went back in.

We drank some more and joked with all my friends. One of my girlfriends there had a tattoo of a fis on her thighs. I told her that I would be scared fucking her and that would that scaly thighs away from me if it shakes. It was so fun that she even flashed me her titties later that night.

I went back outside to smoke. I didn't notice but my friends were saying that the hot girl kept looking outside at me. The guys were thinking what should Logan do. Obviously she is interested. One of our girlfriend told them I should stay outside so that I can be more of a challenge. The hot girl, Melissa, comes out with beads and said that her friends told her to give that to me.

I said "I can't put all that on but if you take one out I can wear that".

She tried to pull it apart but it was too tangled so she just threw it in the trash. I told her that it was my gift and she needs to get it back out. She responded "You take it out and I'll dance with you." I told her it doesn't work that way. She went back inside. I could tell she is so used to guys all being over her and to have a guy like me looking like i might be interested but not really must've blew her mind:) Yes, I always have a positive look in situations.

We left and my plan now is to make an appointment to get a haircut. We'll see where it goes from there. Stay tuned.

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Thursday of being the man.

I started thursday by shooting a wedding in Los Angeles. Yes, I also photograph wedding as my side business. Anyways, I invited Candy to be my assistant for the wedding. This girl is the bomb. She is beautiful, smart and have a lot to offer. We connected really way during the drive to and from Los Angeles. I don't think I'm going to pursue this one too hard though. I don't want to ruin a good friendship like this. At the same time I do want to get with her so I need to figure out a way to make sure I don't lose the friendship if the sex happens and than stops. We'll see.

After I dropped her off, I went to a small, country like karaoke bar with my partner in crime, Mafia. I thought we were going to just chill, sing and drink some beers but it became an interesting night after all. As we got our beer and sat down, out of 10 people in the whole bar, I noticed two cute blond girls next to us, and another blond bartender that was off the clock. I was way too dressed for this place since I came straight from a wedding but it felt good. One of the girl sang first and I gave her a high five as she came down the stage.

Something about high fives that works so damn well to get things rolling. It's a way to create a connection without giving a predator like feeling.

Mafia and I went out to smoke and the two blonds came out within seconds so I asked for a lighter. I have a lighter but its an easy way to start a conversation by asking for one or offering one. We all talked and laughed.

Laughing is the key. If you can get a girl to laugh, she will drop her defense and open up to you more.

We went back in and I went up to sing a song. I won the girls over with my karaoke skills:) and told them they should throw me their panties next time. After 10 minutes of bullshitting around the bar, we went back out and made friends with a huge Samoan, Gabe and the blond bartender. I asked her about her tattoo and she showed us the rest on her chest and her back. No we didn't see her boobs. Conversation went well and she even told her friend how I backed her up when a creep was trying to talk to her. The bartender told us how couple months back, a guy punched her and slapped her friend outside of the bar because she didn't want to give him her number. Crazy or what? Mafia than came up with some funny ass jokes. "Did you go back in the bar and sing 'Hit me baby one more time?" and also "You did fall for him right?" Mafia was coming out with jokes left and right and we were just laughing hysterically. We went back in and Mafia and I sang one more song and decided to head out. I gave the two girl, Brittany and Shelley my Iphone to put their phone numbers in and told them I will contact them the next time we come to the karoke bar. It was a fun night.

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Friday night out with main man 'Mafia'.

Friday night comes along and I want to go out so I call my boy Mafia and wait for him to show up at a little Karaoke spot. I am used to Asian karaoke joints since us Asians originated this drunk singing but from time to time I have to venture to American karaoke bars just to spice things up. Believe me, it has a total different atmosphere. As soon as we walk in, a girl walks right up to me and starts dancing with me, grabbing my hands all crazy. She was drunk and was with 5 other girls and were having good times e so I entertained her, ask her friends to control her (with a smile) and let her go after a minute of dancing. This is good. Mafia and I felt out of place a bit, being the only Asians in the bar but felt instantly comfortable thanks to the happy dancing girl. There were two cute girls within the group and after talking to some of them, found out they were daughters to two different woman in the group. I thought that was cool to be partying with your moms and the moms weren't that bad either. We made sure that we talked to everybody and sarge as much as we can. I think you should always talk to everybody. It helps keep your energy level consistent. I had a blond girl eying me so I eyed her back. When you catch a girls stare, you make sure that you stare at her back and don't look away. Make sure she looks away and always have a confident expression. The blond finally came up to my little group (Mafia and I were already talking to a girl) and asked if she can have a cigarette. She claimed she didn't really smoke but she thought she'll try that night anyways. A big sign that she was interested. I don't know why I didn't do anything to really pursue her but I just laid back and talked to her a little bit. I'm not out there to get all the girls that are interested in me, just the one's that I'm interested in. We walk back in and Mafia goes to the dancing girl and dances with her all over the place. He's been on his A game the whole night and wasn't slowing down. After a mingling with just about everyone at the bar we left to meet up with a girl that I'm interested in at another bar.

Last month, I met this girl, Bree, at a park when I was playing with my two year old boy. Yes I am a single father:) Group of three girls walked by and the cute one smiled at me. 10 minutes later I see them again so this time i said something like 'are you guys following us?'. We chatted, they loved my little man and than i asked for the cute girls phone number.

Back to the bar scene, we walk in and instantly see one of our friends so that again made me feel comfortable of the new bar that we just entered. We got ourselves a drink first (beautiful - the name of the drink) and then started walking around. Just because I am there to meet a girl doesn't mean I am going to go straight to her. Remember, you're a man and you should act like one, unlike some pussies that I see out there all attached and won't let them go anywhere. Than again, we men are all like dogs and that's what dog's do. Fight those urges damn it:) I cross her path, tell her thanks for inviting me and since she was walking with her girlfriends I told her I'll catch her later. We go to the back, the smoking area and Mafia opens up a 3 set. It's an opener that really happened to a friend of mine.

Opener: "Excue me guys? Can i ask you guys a quick questions. I need a woman's perspective in this. My friend recently went on a date and had a great time. She even told him she was going to call him the next day. Well, next day she doens't call so he calls her, and leaves a message. After an hour later he calls again and once again gets the answering message leaving a second message. Is this a bad sign?"

He gets a great response and one of the girl gives him a huge IOI. After entertaining the group for 5 minutes, the third girl blurts out that we got all this moves from the pick up artist show from VH1. We acted like we didn't know what she was talking about. She even called us a master pick up artist but I didn't like her vibe so I told Mafia that we need to go find our friend so we took off. We caught up to my girl and she introduced to her friends. They were four of them and they were all really cute. They were actually the cutest girls we've seen all night so far. They were also cool. I told Bree i was going to buy her a drink since she was empty handed. Mafia stopped me in front of them and asked why I was buying her a drink, she didn't even prove herself to be even worthy. Haha, I loved it.

Bree's girlfriend: "He's being a gentleman buying her a drink, what's wrong with you!"
Mafia: "I'm just saying I'm looking at my boy's best interests. He doesn't normally buy anyone drinks. She needs to show him why she's worth the drink.

I just stood there and let them have a friendly argument a bit and proceeded to the bar for that drink. I don't buy girls drinks, it's just that I told her I was going to get her a drink couple days ago over text messages because she told me how broke she was and she was standing there all cute without a drink. I gotta give in sometimes.

While I was in line, Mafia made her give him 3 qualifications. Good man. I gave my girl the drink and walked away for a bit with Mafia. Mafia had the right mindset the whole night. His goal was to create his own frame. The world basically revolved around him and he created whatever he wanted. It worked great for him the whole night. We walked around a bit, it was close to closing so we headed back to their girls, danced with them for a bit and kissed her bye as one of their friend was wanting to go home pretty badly. The night went pretty well. We talked to so many different kinds of people. Sarging with Mafia is always fun.

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A little about me.

My alias name is Logan. So I'm a dork. I got that name from Wolverine comic book. My favorite character only because he don't give a fuck. Anyways, all my life, I have always been surrounded by girls. I grew up in a beautiful island of Guam. For all you people who have no idea what Guam is, it's a US territory located between Japan and Hawaii. It is small and we all kind of know each other with a population of 150k people. I'm in San Diego, California now but man do I miss the island.

Back to my life, I had my first crush when I was 5 and had a girl kiss me when I was 8. I had female friends til I was in highschool than bam, nerdome struck me so fast as my acne all over my face causing me to get low self esteem thus pushing all the girls away from my life.

Remember when you were just hitting puberty and all you wanted to do was fuck? I would've fucked a old whore from bangkok if I had the money when i was 13. I felt so envious of my friends who were having sex at such a young age. I even was in love with a girl name Darcy only because she had big boobs!

I finally broke out of comic books and lonely jerks of a life when i met my best friend at the age of 16. He used a nickname Romeo and he was a cool cat from Japan. He was a natural. Being a good looking guy didn't hurt either. Girls would come around and throw there phone numbers at him. We both had many things in common such as martial arts (I have two black belts by the way, one in tae kwon do and 1 in tang soo do), partying and especially the love of girls. He slowly showed me the way to righteousness.

I am now in my late twenties and have been through all kinds of girls. Some have even told me that I can get any girls that I wanted and some have told me that I was a creep. 'Creep' is the term girls use to explain what a guy who are pussy whooped and easy to control. Don't you find it hard sometimes when a hot girl seems all interested in you and all you want to do is fuck them right away? Well, that causes me to act like a creep and call them and leaves messages. Rule number 1. Don't leave them more than 1 message. If you send two messages and you don't get any back, don't send another one until they do. If they never do than go with another approach. Just because they don't message does not mean you don't have a chance with them yet.

I thought I had to rely on my looks and charms to get the girls that I want and cross my fingers that they'll sleep with me. Sometimes it worked but most of the time it failed. It wasn't until I found the book called Game by Neil Strauss while back. I was in heaven! There is an actual psychology behind woman's emotions and Guys like Neil and the amazing Mystery figured them out! Now I have become a hungry man who have starved over 20 some years and have finally found food! I am reading everything and doing everything I can do understand the female psyche so that I have more than couple of options and that I can be the 'Alpha Male' when I go out with friends and do more than just having couple of boring conversations with girls. Yes 4o years olf females can be called girls also.

So follow me through my journey or learning and discovering the whole new world of getting the girl that you want and ultimately getting the sex that we all deserve. Let's go.

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