It's been a while since I last wrote. I have been going out alot, still meeting many women and trying to figure out the mystery behind women. All this training, learning and going out and actually meeting woman have finally made me realize what the whole trick to being successful with women is.
I haven't wrote because every night has been the same kinds of night. Sure it's been great. Many numbers closed, some kiss closes, many attraction but it was getting really repetitive and boring. If you play the game and meet a women, it is easy to lose interest. Simply, easy come, easy go. Than again, if you don't play the game, your success rate drops. You ask every women and they will tell you to just be yourself. Such bull crap.
The strange thing is that most woman loves the same kind of guy. Smart, witty, confident, a little cocky, and very alpha. Looks can help but definitely not that important.
It's been a while and my whole personality has changed. I don't use any lines and my approach has been direct. I simply walk towards a girl with a smile and with confidence. I put my hand out and say hi, what is your name.
I've been out to bunch of clubs and bars in LA and in San Diego and if you look around, 90 percent of the guys are too scared to approach girls. They get drunk at around midnight and start using their liquid courage to talk to girls. Many times, they get too aggressive and at this point most girls have their defense up since guys are grabbing them and talking to them all aggressive. So, I like to talk to the girls before I drink and before 11pm.
My whole attitude and personality has changed. I am now really confident. Not because I think of myself of being amazing but because I don't care what they think or care about how they react. They are not important to have an affect in my life. My success rate has risen to 90%. I'm at a point now that woman approach me more than I approach them. I am very impressed by this and am entertained.
My advice, learn the game from every author you can find from Deangelo, cocky funny to Mystery, pick up artist. Use them as if it's a training wheel. Understand the psychology of woman and see what they're trying to say. Quit being so creepy. Go to a club and watch how those creepy guys approach girls and get denied right away. Don't do what they do. Be friendly to everyone in the group and not just pick one cute girl to be nice to. Have a strong sense of identity.
Okay, so this was the boring stuff. I will write more of my field report later. Happy New Years!
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