Strip Joints.

Pick up a stripper.

I just recently found Cajun's Keys to the VIP video and I have to tell you, he is the man. It was perfection. Check out the video.

One of the things that Cajun teaches is the whole body approach. You need to come off like youre a real rockstar. Head tilted up and bringing it down when talking to a girl and bring it back up. Talk slower and make it sound more meaningful. Basically how to be confident from your posture. I love it. It has brought my game in another level. They see the confidence even before opening my mouth. Let's test it out at a strip club.

Ever once in a while, I'll stop by a strip joint for some hotdog and coke and a little entertainment for lunch. To day was a good one. I go inside and get my food and drink and notice that there is a hot short blond bartender. I gotta say a 9 cute. Cutest I've seen at a strip club. I kept my cool and the rockstar attitude.

Always keep a straight face with little emotional reaction. The whole time a dancer would come up and talk I would mention something away from her dancing and about her. I chilled a bit and went to the bartender to finish my drink there. The cute blond and I started talking, building comfort.

She got aggressive and straight says's "You're cute. "
I tell her "You're not too bad yourself."
She giggles. She asks "So, do you work out? You have a nice body."
I say "Were you checking me out and looking at my ass?"
She says she was and tells me she's very visual.

We started talking about the kind of clubs we like to go to. She was giving me the signs that shows she's attracted. Starting conversations when I stop talking. The obvious bluntness of her telling me I'm good looking and has a nice body. Asking me about me.

I tell her "Your boyfriend must be very lucky."
She says "My boyfriend is very lucky since he gets away with alot of shady shit."
I say "Where can I buy someone like you?"

She continues to ask me about the clubs so this shows me that she is still game although she has a boyfriend. I sensed it from her.

Just than a dancer that kinda has a crush on me that I'm not too interested in comes by and gives me this jealous look and stands between me and the cute blond. I went there twice total within the last 2 months for lunch and she gave me some hard idea that she's interested in me but I think she's a 6 so I'm passing. I'm not going to run through hoops so I say bye and head out. The blond told me she was off on weekends so I'll maybe check her out next week to get her number, maybe.

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Dating.

Let me tell you what the heck the United States did to us American men and women. First off, majority of the girls in other countries in Europe, Asia and even the North Pole (santa's elves) all love American men because we generally put women up in the pedestal. Women are treated pretty badly compared to America over there. Guys are more ruthless and some countries, it's legal to beat your wife. Crazy, I know. So you will always hear when your friends travel to other countries, girls flock to their presence once they find out that they're Americans. Of course them wanting to get a visa in some cases don't hurt either. The way those non American women treat their men is amazing. They will worship you practically.

In America, it's not the girls fault that most of them has to act like a bitch to you. It's not their fault that they will test you and stop calling you and ignore your phone calls after you fail the test. It's our fault. Women have so much power that they are about to become the president of the United States (Hillary Clinton) and rule over us men. We did this. Go to a club and sit back and watch what happens. This is so damn typical. A guy goes over to the girl and flocks all over them, offers to buy them drinks instantly and tries to hang around them like they got no other life. It looks pathetic and it's common. I was there man. I was that nasty guy. It's the way our mom's raised us. Ask a hot girl what they're used to at clubs and bars. They are used to hundreds of guys doing the same thing to get their attention and all because they are physically attractive. Hot women are way too experienced in social behavior with male encounter. So they have to be defensive, they have to be selective and yes, they have to be bitchy just to get the point across.

Within last few months, I've been on many dates (all 9's and 10's) and here is what works best from trial and error.

Let me start with the most important rule of dating. You have to create your own frame. You are the one in charge and whatever reality that you want to live is what needs to happen. Don't ask her, tell her. Don't wait for permission, give it. Don't find out what she wants to do, you just pick it and set it.

Quit being so damn whimpy and needy and be a man. A 'man' can only be defined by a woman and being a 'woman' can only be defined by a man or else the definition will be bias if defined by the same sex. Woman wants a confident, a bit cocky in a funny way (David Deangleo), higher status, who can give them multiple emotional feelings from jealousy to surprised to sadness to happiness, who can seduce them and who can be 'normal' around them. How do we act in front of our homies and sisters. We tease them. We are cool with them. If I call them and they don't pick up it's no big deal. If i make plans with them and it doesn't fall through, it's no big deal, we'll do it next time. Notice when you're with a hot girl, you tend to get really nice and submissive and try to impress the girl by making sure you don't offend them and asking them how they feel. You try to show off how rich you are or the things that you do. Most guys don't act like themselves. This will never work if you're looking for the girl that you want to be with.

I let them know that we are hanging out and never mention that we're 'dating'. Always let them understand that we're hanging out as friends and nothing more. If something romantic comes out of it than great but I am not expecting it.

Don't ever invite yourself in to the girls home no matter what. I have female friends who constantly complain about this and the shit they gotta do to try to give them the hint to leave is so damn funny.

At first, tell them to meet you at your place. Invite them inside for a second so you can 'grab your stuff'. This is so that they become familiar with your home so that maybe later they won't feel so unsure about coming over since they already came over once. (Deangelo's idea)

Be cocky and funny. Tell them things like, you guys are now married and should plan a trip to an exotic country and shock the beach on goers by you two making out wearing a nun and a priest outfit. Stories like this implies that you are sexually interested in her but without actually telling her. It's also funny and girls love this kid of interactions way more than simple questions and answer sessions.

Push Pull. Hold her hands than pull away and let her know she's being way too pushy. Put your arms around her than slightly push her away when ever you feel that she is getting into it. Girls are like cats. You give them a little bit of that string than pull it away and you will see the cat going crazy and want it more and chase that string. Give her the whole ball of yarn and she'll play with it for a second and walk away. Put the cat on your lap and she will want to jump away soon but push her away and she will want to come after your lap and affection. Us guys, we're dogs. Just give us a bone and we're happy.

Go to multiple venues so that it's like going on multiple dates. Take her to a local concert but on the way stop by to get something to munch on real fast. Get a drink at a local bar first. Stop by a nice area to walk around, arm in arm and chat for couple of minutes. She will feel more comfortable with you this way.

At the end of the date, invite her over to your place so you can show her some photos, video, the book you talked about. However, let her know, you will need to kick her out because you have to wake up early tomorrow for work so she can only stay couple of minutes.

Do not be afraid to touch her. 'Kino escalate', thank you Mystery.

Here's my theory. If you want to keep her as a friend and want to have a friendly relationship with her after the sex is over than don't do anything more than kissing that night. You need to build strong comfort. If you want to just fuck than move on and that's a whole different session of education. Never tell them you want to be with them for the long run if that's not your plan. Girls will get hurt and it's fucked up to emotionally hurt them like that. When they finally give in, girls put their emotions into it. They will be cool with the fact that you're only looking for some fun and not interested in a serious relationship. Women need sex too you know.

Enough for now.

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Huge Mistake!

Hillary was this cutest girl I have met so far. Black hair with big bright blue eyes and an awesome personality. I made the biggest mistake with Hillary this week. So bad that I had to delete her number and completely forget her.

Last Saturday, my roll dogs and friends were all going to downtown and or too busy to go out so I decided to go out by myself. I went to my favorite place Yogi's. Awesome as ever again. I started alone with a drink in hand and just hanging out watching people. I mingled with couple of people but just to mingle and get my energy started. Luckily the bouncer was cool with me and eventually and coincidentally met some of my acquaintances so I chilled with them. I went to the back to smoke and Jare the bouncer was there. I started a conversation with a brunette by telling her that she was cute and had a really innocent look to her. She thought I was joking with her but I told her it's how I feel right now. She complied.

So far, surprisingly, complimenting on the girls look as my approach has been working the best for me. I think this only works when the girl is physically attracted back. Gotta narrow this down more on logic.

We talked and she was all over me. She was talking to me so close that her body was touching mine. Than all of a sudden she introduces me to her husband nearby. I was surprised but i quickly made friends with the husband. I excused myself and went back inside.

I than see this gorgeous girl. Hillary. I see that an acquaintance of mine was taking her group's photo and trying to work himself in but the girls were showing a little resistance. He than brings me over to introduce them. I tell them they need to spread out because all the shy guys here are having a hard time approaching them. I than say hi to Hillary. She introduces herself and we got to instantly comfort building. I moved her around the bar hand in hand. She wanted my phone number and wanted to hang out again already. She buys me a shot. She even says no to her girlfriends inviting her to party somewhere else so she can stick around the bar. I was too damn shocked to see it so damn fast we were escalating without me doing hardly anything and i was so damn attracted to her. You know that feeling when you see someone for the first time and your stomach just drops. It's psychological. I than see my female friend Mel and I get pulled away from Hillary for a second.

Mel is a fucking 10 if not more. She looks like Kate Beckinsale and is friendly as fuck. I"m so damn attracted to her and I'm photographing her this week. I made up my mind I'm going in when I see her, at least 1st base.

I was so surprised to see Mel there, I talked to her for a bit and went back to Hillary. She really wanted me to hang out with her. I can just sense that. Her starting conversations. Her complying to my touches. It was on. It was damn crowded in there. A guy friend of hers started talking to her and at the same time, the married girl started talking to me. So we got separated and I see Hillary walking away with the other guy. She gives me that look like she'll be back. I go to Mel and hang with her and the guy she's with and the guy tells her he thinks I'm really cool. Points for me. Mel tells me that she's single now. Fuck yes! I forget the time and try to find Hillary but she's gone. I was so damn disappointed that I didn't get her number when she suggested us exchanging our number.

I go home and since she told me alot about herself I was able to find her phone number online. I know this was the wrong thing to do but it was love at first sight. Big freaken mistake. I text her the next day and she even responded back saying it was nice to meet me but I can sense that weird barrier from her. I can't blame her. I found her number online. That's creepy. It's a no no. I than asked her to have dinner with me and she shoots a nasty text saying she's got a man and that it's not appropriate. My heart just fell to the floor and man, is it shocking. It's a great way to move on though. Clean and to the point.

All girls will say they got a man if they're not interested. Girls that have boyfriends will usually try to hide it from you as long as they can if they are interested in you.

Lesson learned. Hey, at least I got hottest girl I can find in the bar to buy me a drink and walk around with me holding hands. That's badass in it's own. Than again this is good for me. I am not ready to settle down since I have too much going on and can't handle a relationship. I would've settled with this girl and fuck up my financial goals and personal responsibility. This is a good thing that happened in my opinion. I should never date that one girl who has a spell over you and that can make you start a war for her love. Hillary was that one and I was lucky enough to have lost it this way. A great experience for me. It is so damn rare to find that girl that flips your heart like that. I would've been so damn pussy whooped.

Sunday comes around and I have a date with Tam. 6 feet blond girl. The date was very pleasant. Had sushi and soju, went to get a beer at a local bar than hung out at my place smoking bud and laughing our asses off and building heavy comfort. I like Mel. She's a very sweet and fragile girl and I love how much taller she is. Sexy and very independent and strong mind. Not to mention her body fucking rocks. I told her that I wasn't going to kiss her because I want to build our friendship before anything happens since we met at a bar and that sounds tacky. I took her back to her home at 10 pm and now I feel like we have bonded in another level. I'm going to take her out again and this time I'm going to ravage her but we'll see how it comes out.

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Juggling.

It's been good and it's getting better every week. From going out and meeting all different kind of women, I am finally starting to get with the same level if not higher with girls I approach now. Last night was years eve for 2008 and me and my homie Corrida went to Yogis first then to a house party to wind down. Yogis is the best damn place for me since it has the most beautiful blond girls in one location. There were so damn much that I literally couldn't decide who to talk to. It was like a little boy in Disneyland. I was overwhelmed.

I started the night by getting my 'Beautiful' alcohol. I could stand anywhere and there would been a cute girl to talk to right next to you. That's how amazing this place is and not to mention there is a more friendly atmosphere unlike loud clubs.

I took my jacket off and placed it on a speaker right behind a cute brunette. She moved away and looked at me and I said "I was going to ask you to watch my jacket for me since you were standing there all hard and tough like a bouncer."

She smiled and told me she'll keep an eye on my jacket for me. I touched her lower back and told her thank you and gave her a smile. I could tell she was into me.

I like to go to the bars a little early so that I can start the small talk and later when things get hectic and people are drunk, those girls are already comfortable with you. For example, if you go to the dance floor when it's packed and try to creep up on a dancing girl, majority of the time she will move away from you. If you already made small comfort building conversations earlier and than came by, they would most likely grab you to dance.

I go to the back to smoke and there are 2 girls smoking. Tall blond and a brunette. I make friends with the bouncer and I even buy him a shot since he was so cool. He later gets us in through the back pass the long line. He remembered me from last time and told me he remembered me since I was hanging out with cute girls last time. That's how I roll.

I go to the two girls and say "DO you girls think that because he is a bouncer that girls will find him more attrractive?" Two girls says no. I then ask them to do me a favor and come with me to say hi to my new bouncer friend. They comply and follow me and I throw them to the bouncer and move away a bit. They say hi and come back to me. Corrida comes by and says what's up to me and asks "how do you all know each other?"

I said "Her and I (holding the tall blond by the waist and which she then grabs me also) used to date back in the days but I dumped her since she got obsesses and crazy with me."

She then quickly says "Yeah, that was when I was crazy but now I'm not, so we're cool."

She was opened and than she qualified herself to me. The brunette starts to touch me and I push her hand away and tell her that I'm not that easy. She said "Do you have any mexican in you?" I said no. Brunette said "Would you like some tonight?"

Haha, I got thrown a cheesy guy line at me. Fuck Yes. The bouncer asks why we're all laughing and I tell her but she interrupts me and tell the bouncer that I fell for the oldest trick in the book. She than grabs my tie and the blond is behind me grinding and squeezing my chest. I told them I'm not a piece of meat they can just take advantage of as they are grinding me in the smoking area outside. What a fucking stud like I must've looked to all the guys outside smoking and looking. The brunette unties my necktie and put it around my head and unbutton my shirt and the girl behid me grabs my bare chest. I swear this is sounding like porn. Haha. I push both of them away and adjust my clothes and tell them I'm going inside to get more drink. Brunette tells me that the blond is into Asian guys. I love hearing that.

Couple days before I photographed a blond girl and she told me her preference of guys has always been white guys. I hate hearing that. At the same time, it just means that I have a bigger challenge. I'll tell you what, after I was done photographing her, she didn't want to leave but I made her finally leave at 10 pm. She had a boyfriend and I'm really not into fucking around with a girl who has a boyfriend unless she was a 9 or a 10. She was a 8.5. Haha. Excuses, I know.

I go inside and chit chat and bullshit. Say hi to another blond friend that I'm interested in, talk a bit and I needed to get out of there to meet with a friend of ours at a small house party. I then got the blonds phone number and leave the place. I went to the house party, had fun with some friends and went to home at 1 since I was too tired.

Next day I call the blond, Tam and arrange a date for this Thursday. I tell her that we can hang out, walk around downtown and get some food and get to know each other a bit. I make her laugh by teasing her about her height. I tell her she can't wear high heels next time and she says that most guys are intimidated from her height. I tell her that I'm not intimidated by her height. Shit, she had me qualify to her.

Tam's a new girl I am talking to now. Spears is the one blond that made me this socializing, womanizing monster and am trying to get with her. I got kitty's phone number couple night ago, white/philipino, that I'm trying to holler. I'm going to be taking photos of a cute blond, Ashley, that I got the phone number from 3 days ago. Ashley is very cute. I only talked to her for a second and got her email adress. She was stunned that I asked for her email and told me that no one ever asked for that before. I told her, email was more comfortable for me. I have my girl Candy that I hooked up with last month but I'm still interested in hooking up and hanging out with her. She is in Canada for a vacation and won't be back until couple weeks. I have 5 more beautiful women from 8 to 12 in the rating who have boyfriend but doesn't mind hanging out with me by themselves. Crazy. I have some more numbers and emails that I lost interest in. Yet, I am still alone most nights. This is the next level I am in training. I'm a brown belt in the Vensusian Art. I am working at getting my black belt. Fuck yes.

It's all overwhelming right now but it's like a fast mode of learning and understanding beautiful women. The more I go out and talk to and hook up, the more natural I become with woman. I am going to edit my blog one day and make it into a book. I used to be a island wide Chess champion in middle school. I was in art club and collected comic books. The only pussy I ever say was on a penthouse magazine. I was deprived. I was the nice guy from the girls most of my growing life. This is how I developed the passion and the desire to be with beautiful woman, not to mention it's in all of our blood to start out with anyways. My life just gave me a bigger boost than most.

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