Decoding Women's Mind

Here is a little joke and yet so damn true piece that a friend of mine emailed me today.

>> * 40-ish................................49.
>> * Adventurous...........................Slept with everyone.
>> * Athletic..............................No breasts.
>> * Average looking.......................Moooo.
>> * Beautiful.............................Pathological liar.
>> * Emotionally Secure....................On medication.
>> * Feminist..............................Fat.
>> * Free Spirit...........................Junkie.
>> * Friendship first......................Former Slut.
>> * New-Age...............................Body hair in the wrong places.
>> * Old-fashioned.........................No B.J.'s
>> * Open-minded...........................Desperate.
>> * Outgoing..............................Loud and embarrassing.
>> * Professional..........................Bitch.
>> * Voluptuous............................Very fat.
>> * Large frame...........................Hugely fat.
>> * Wants soul mate.......................Stalker.
>>
>> DICTIONARY FOR DECODING WOMEN'S ENGLISH:
>>
>> * Yes...................................No
>> * No....................................Yes
>> * Maybe.................................No
>> * We need...............................I want
>> * I am sorry............................You'll be sorry
>> * We need to talk.......................You're in trouble
>> * Sure, go ahead........................You better not
>> * Do what you want......................You will pay for this later
>> * I am not upset........................Of course, I am upset, you moron!
>> * You're attentive tonight..............Is sex all you ever think about?

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Loving Women. Problem?

Okay, so I think I have a problem. I love women too much. I always have. Ever since I can remember from when I was 4, I always wanted to be with a girl. While my brother was hanging out with bunch of little boys causing trouble, I always wanted to split my time with the boys and girls. I remember going over to girls house, knocking on the door and asking if she can come out and play. Don't get me wrong, I have a strong handful of great homies and they'll be my brotha's for life but I always had to balance my life out with the same amount of girls in my life. So I do have girls who are actually real close to me. I have no intentions on having sex with all of them. I legitimately consider them close friends. One requirement, they have to be attractive to me to pass as a 'bff'. It must go back to psychology of my mother.

Anyways, moving onto my whole love thing. Yes, I am still in 'love' with Meli but I have been seeing other people this past couple of weeks. I couldn't stand how much I feel for this girl. She's on my mind when I'm working, sleeping and the first thing that comes to mind when I wake up! I am fucking obsessed with this one. I've had 2 other girls in my life who I felt this way towards and believe me, that's super rare. Out of hundreds of girls I've dated, only 2! Well, Meli is my third.

She just happen to break up with her unhealthy relationship of 1 year so I need to give her time to heal. So I told her that I am moving on and will date other people while we work on our friendship.

I needed to do something. I don't like the way I feel when I am in 'love'. It's uncontrollable but inspiring. It opens up other emotions such as jealousy, concerns, anxiety and other emotions I can't stand and don't normally feel. So I am taking steps to get a control of this emotion.

Step 1: Writing a letter to her telling her that I am moving on and that we should focus on being friends first. She calls me back and tells me how she would love to date a 'bff' since she has only had damaged relationship from getting into relationships with just guys that she meets.

Is this bullshit? I had a conversation with another girl the other night and she told me that she would love that more than anything else. Maybe it's true, I'll find out.

Step 2: Put a rubber band around my wrist and snapping it every time I think of her. This is a very popular psychology method anytime you start to feel emotionally weak. Instead of sitting there for long minutes and dwelling on the bad emotion, just snap the rubber

Step 3: Dating other girls. I've actually went on 3 different dates with the nights ending well but I still think about Meli. WTF?! I even thought about her while I was hooking up with one of them.

I had a conversation with others and all the poeple seems to be in love with 1 person who just drives them crazy. Maybe it's love but either way it creates heavy emotions such as jealousy, anxiety, missing her, anger and all that bullshit.

I don't know if this techniques will work but it's been making me feel alot better and allow myself to not dwell on Meli so much.

And yes, I hooked up with handful of girls this week. I don't know what happened but they all called me! Don't get me wrong, I treat all of them with the highest respect and always make them feel good about themselves. I'm almost like a male escort without the pay. It's fun and healthy so why not.

I had one girl, Eri, come visit san diego from her home town so we went out to a club, met up with some friends, danced and had a great time. I haven't seen her in almost 6 years and she still looked good after 2 kids. Eri, kept telling me and my friend that we must do good as single guys. I told her we only hang out with each other and don't like talking to other girls. Haha, I said it as a joke and she got it.

Pick Up Technique: My homie tells me to go talk to the 4 girls that were sitting nearby and Eri wanted to see what I can do. I go up to the girls and ask an opinionated question. I then instantly point to my female friend and homie to let them know that we were just talking about that subject. I do this so they know that I'm not a creep and that I have cool people I can always kick it with. This allows them to throw down their guards pretty fast. The cute one is married and tells me that she doesn't go out much so I tease her by saying that she is the boring one out of the group.

Make sure you are talking in a friendly way because you can sound like an asshole with the wrong tone.

One of them showed me high interest so I started teasing her saying she's the trouble maker and we can't be friends because she loves to drink and cause trouble.

I quickly found the one that is the leader of the pact and I instantly became friends with her by saying how cool she is and giving her a high five.

I encouraged the 4th girl that was a bit on the shy side by bringing her into the conversation.

They all asked for my name. I don't introduce myself because it's one major sign of interest when they ask for it. I tell them, I shouldn't tell them because they can't pronounce it or remember it. They said they'll try and after telling them my name, they actually were proud that they can pronounce it and remember it. I excuse myself so I can go back to my friends. The one that showed me interest yells back at me saying that she couldn't remember my name but I just smile and go back.

I bring Eri back to my place and we just fool around. It'was nice.

Two nights later, my old apartment manager's daughter calls me and wants to bring her girlfriend to dance and drink at my place. I invite them and it was fun. Both were cute and had this lesbian tendency. There was music, dancing and drinking. The other girl went home early because she had responsibilities but the other girl stayed and we had a little fun.

I go visit my friend up north the next 2 days later and spend the night over having good conversation and enjoying life.

I know if oneday, 1 of my female friends finds this, they're going to chew my ass a new hole. I just think it'll make a good story.

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I am in LOVE! or is it?

I am in love! I don't really know if it's really love or not but I do know that I am overwhelmed with emotions when I am around this girl.

All this going out with girls, sarging and closing them is ultimately to find that 1 who blows you away. I went through many dates and it was all a game, like a chess game. They all respond the same and ultimately it was just for fun. Of course I never went out to hurt the girls and I never told them lies to make them sleep with me. I acted like an asshole but I wasn't an asshole if that makes any sense. Let's just say that if you're single than shit, be fucking amazing at being single.

Most guys don't understand women and no, I'm not saying that I'm a 'mister know it all' but I understand them more than others I've known. I have a degree in psychology, not that it really helped but it's a passion of mine to understand human behaviors.

Now saying that, there are still things that i can't understand, like love. Is it Chemistry imbalance? Is it getting what you finally wanted? Is it massive physical attraction? I can't understand it but I'm in it right now.

I have been with this 1 girl Meli for a whole week spending every night together. I have met her a year ago at a little bar but she had a boyfriend at the time so although she gave me her number, she was a good girl not to do anything with me. Yes, girls with boyfriends gives me their number from time to time. How can they not when my game is that tight:)

So 1 night she texts me a midnight and asks me to come over with a bottle of wine but she told me I had to behave. It was a fun sunday night. We laughed, joked and talked about deep things in life. We cuddles and went straight to bed, which was fucking hard in my part but still manageable.

First off, I'm not all about fucking. Quit being so typical and try to fuck all the time. There's too much risk just fucking around. Pregnancy, disease, emotional bullshit from the girls. I've come to a point where just knowing that I can have her gives me that mental satisfaction. As a matter of fact, last month, I was in bed with this beautiful tall blond with an amazing body but I told her last minute that I don't want to fuck her just yet, I wanted to get to know her a bit more to see what she's all about. Well, we still talk here and there but I can see nothing is gonna happen. There really wasn't any real spark anyways. Call me crazy but with this self confidence that I have, I want more about of a girl than just pussy rubbing my dick.

Haha, okay so back to Meli. So the next day, monday, comes around and I ask her what she's doing and she invites me over. I have spent the earlier hours looking at her myspace and found a poem that she wrote 3 years ago. She said she wanted to make it into a song oneday. Well I love my guitar and luckily I can sing so I make her poem into a song. It just came to me. I come over and I sing her the song. She tells me how much she loves my voice and how amazing the song was. Since it was really late by the time I get to her house we have a short conversation and we fall asleep again cuddling. I'm telling, yes I wanted her but Just having her in my arms was so amazing. You ever had a girl you had a crush so badly, you knew you liked her and yet you really don't know why. Meli is a 10. She's beautiful, fun, deep and just a good person.

Tuesday, I suggest we go to Pacific Beach bar and meet up with my couple friend. So four of us hang out, drinking each of us buying 4 ronds of shot each and just have a blast. We dance, joke and laugh all night. I would pull her to the dance floor and we would flirt and have this little role playing act while dancing. it was so cute and people were getting out of our way, making room for us to dance. Awesome.

Wednesday comes and I come over at night and get her ass to put some clothes on so i can take her to get some frozen yogurt at my uncles cool little cafe. We hang, mingle with my uncle and go back home and once again just sleep cuddling.

Thursday. I pick her up with my roomate Jess and we go to downtown to meet my homie Elji who drives us in his new mercedes:) He brings a girl he met last week to hang out with us. Shit the night was so fucking fun. We first go to this club called Minus 1 and meet up with my other homie and just mingle around. The place sucked. No one was dancing any the vibe was a bit stuck up for my taste. I recommend that we roll out and we head to Ivy. The line was not moving at all but luckily my homie knew the bouncer so we got in without waiting in line. This is the first time going to Ivy and when we walked in, the club looked a bit dead for the long ass line. Meli, walks us to the bottom floor and it is big and packed and everybody was dancing. The vibe was great but the alchol tab was ridiculously high. We all must've spent at least a 100 bucks. Our energy was so high. Meli was so great. She talked with all my friends and they all loved her. I played a little game with her. She leaves to the restroom and I go over to a blond nearby to start a conversation with her. When Meli comes back, she interrupts us without knowing, than my roommate as a joke calls her a cock block. She got all defensive and I loved it. I just walk away from the blond and I go to Meli to comfort her but she isn't having it. This energy got me to get real close to her and open up to her in the middle of a loud club and we start to bond and talk about our emotions. I thought it was great. Who does that at a club? However, the timing was great. I go home with her and we make out and get a little groovy. As I was about to go inside her, she tells me no. She says it twice so I get off and we just cuddled. I'm sure we could've had sex that night because we were both so in the mood but I really want our first night to be perfect. I'm not talking about dinner, candle lights and incense. I'm talking about a dim light so I can at least see. I'm talking about spending my time kissing her, licking and eating her than having a great sober but high in chemistry sex. I would hate for our first time to be a drunk sex although it would've still been great. that's just how much I like this girl.

I have been single for 3 years and have gone on many dates and there is nothing like this. I have felt this maybe when i was in high school, when I was in love for the first time. I didn't think it was possible to go through it again. I have been in great realtionships in the past that lasted for many years and yes, it was wonderful. Hanging out with Meli has been just 'perfect'.

Friday was great. We wake up together and go and get some asian breakfast. I take her home so she can work for couple hours while I run some errands. We meet up again and go to the beach. We just lied around talking about sex and life and she tells me she never had any guy she can open up like this. I don't get jealous and I am always curious to hear about other people's lives. We head home, take a nap together and I find a randome little steakhose, a hole in the wall with a piano player. It was so sweet. The steak was good and we get some wine. Meli wanted to give her business card to our waitress since Meli was a hair stylist (and a model) and our waitress had a cool hair cut. Meli gets shy and she decideds not to do it. I tell her,m this is the plan. I'm going to stike a conversation with her about her tattoo and Meli is going to tell her she has an awesome hair style and that she would love to work on it. The waitress comes by again and out plan works smoothly. Something small like that allowed us to sync in a same wave pattern you know what I mean? She could've not said anything because she was shy but she was a team mmeber and the plan was executed smoothly. That little event made us a team. I tease her and tell her she's Robin and I'm Batman and we can be a dynamic duo.

The whole time, we have fun together because the chemistry and the attraction is equal. I tease her and she teases back. Whatever I throw at her, she catches it well and throws it right back. She can keep up with me and plus more.

You know what makes me like her the most? The person I become when I am with her. I am confident. I am very social. I look at life in the most positive way. I even stopped smoking because she doesn't like it. I don't like it anymore and really couldn't care for it. I actually finished a song that she wrote and have a friend who's a music producer who told me he will produce it for me. I have always wanted to make at least 1 song and have never been inspired to do so and now it's happening. Did I also mention she is fucking beautiful? She kinda looks like Kate Beckinsale but sexier. Shit, I'm a lucky ass bastard.

I deserve it though:) I am so curious what's going to happen. I don't know and I don't want to try to make anything happen. We've been going with the flow and it's been fucking amazing....to be continued.

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This world is too small.

I haven't written in a while. I've been busy with my normal life as a photographer, which is an awesome tool to meet beautiful women. However, that's not the reason why I'm a photographer, it's just my passion besides learning and understanding beautiful women.

Check this story out. I went to Guam for a photography gig and went to a strip joint one night by myself just to drink couple beers and go home. I'm from Guam and haven't been back in 9 years so it was an awesome visit for me. I got to see families and old friends.

Anyways, back to the strip joint, I noticed a very cute blond working there. She came over, we talked, always making sure I'm not interested, although obviously us men are always interested. The waitress came by and asked if I wanted to buy her a drink. I told her I should donate to her cause and support her so I got her the drink. We talked, and bonded and let her go. She went up to dance and I stayed back. She waved me over to come over so I came over, tipped her and told her I didn't need her to do anything to me, than I walked back. She came straight back to me after she danced and we hung out some more, got a lap dance and made out with her. The bouncer was cool enough to close the door and give me more time since he saw what was going on. One of my skills is my social skills. I talk to everybody and people generally like to be nice to me since I show my Alpha side but in a friendly and inspirational way.

I took her home with me the next night.

Anyways, I go back to San Diego and a week later I'm partying up top of the Ivy, VIP access. I look to my right and I see a blond staring. I feel a bit uneasy since the stare was pretty damn hard for my taste but I look back and recognize that it was the girl that I met in Guam! WTF?! What are the chances. She was just stopping by before going back home to San Francisco. We hang out a bit and she went her own ways after.

This world is way too small. I don't know if I mentioned it but 1 girl found my blog and knew I was talking about her and got mad at me. She told me I should've asked her but really, could I really ask and get away with it? So I just deleted that part of my blog. I hate the fact that I love women so much that I spend time to getting to understand them. i think it's key to having a lasting relationship which is my ultimate goal.

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Falling in LOVE

I finally found one girl that I can see myself getting into a serious relationship with. This is one girl that I can't play my games with because I lose control and act like a mister nice guy.

First off, I am naturally a nice guy. Like most guys, I instinctively do the wrong thing such as buying them small gifts and do things for them more than they do things for us.

I have heard many guys, including myself in the past, say that we give so much but hardly get anything in return. We naturally want to buy them things, agree with them in many conversations just to be in her good side and basically putting them on a pedestal.

Women don't care too much about being smothered. There is a time and place for that and the timing is very important. For some reason, us guys think that it's a great way to impress her and win her heart. Who or what made us men so bad at understanding women and not giving them what they really want. It's not being treated like a princess.

FYI: This rule doesn't apply after sex. After a sexual relationship is established than it becomes a all new ball game. Smothering and pampering helps with the relationship but at an unexpected time.

I like to summarize it in one sentence. Women needs their emotions to be pleased! Some women don't think it but it's true. They want excitement in their relationships not just a boring, easy, controllable boyfriend. They need to feel jealous, love, teased, pampered, secured, taken care of, most emotions you can find in the dictionary. Reason why, as sad as it may sound, is that most beautiful girls are with bad boys who seems to treat them like shit because most other guys kiss ass and is too damn nice and predictable. Being nice all the time never works so get that out of your head. Sometimes when the girl is less attractive than your level of attractiveness, let's say she's a 6 and you might consider yourself an 8, being nice can work because she wants you for your looks.

Crazy, I know.

Anyways, back to my main story. So I like this girl in a deeper level. I have talked to her for 7 months, on and off, slowest progression I have ever experienced. It's so different from all other girls I've met. It's almost like she's the pick up artist. She's so fucking cool. She knows how to play hard to get and yet still give me this small response to get me to come back. I can tell she really likes but but still keeps me on the edge. If I don't reply in couple of weeks, she'll leave a small myspace comment that gets me back. She can easily find dates and all kinds of guys goes after her. At clubs for eample, if I leave her alone for a minute, some dude is on her instantly. You get the idea.

Lets just say I haven't found anything I didn't like about her. I'm very picky. How is that possible?

Let me tell you what happened just last two nights.

It's friday night and I'm off to meet her (I'm going to call her Cha, which I have also written about her in earlier blog entries) and other friends at the Prospect Club in La Jolla, California. The girl who is promoting asked me to come and join them at their table so how can I turn down free entry, free drinks and beautiful people. The club is amazing. Most of the people were attractive and well dressed. I surprise Cha and friends by meeting them there without telling them. Cha tells me she's happy that I'm there.

There is another girl there that is within the circle of friends named Bon. She's an acquaintance with Cha but had slept with her ex couple of weeks ago so they are in this unfriendly battle. I happen top be friends with both of them and both of them happen to like me as well. How the hell did I get myself in the middle like this? However, I really have feelings for Cha but have just a friendly feelings for Bon.

Bon gets all over me, tries to kiss me and hug me and basically cling onto me. I don't want to participate int hat activity. I know Bon has become very aggressive since Cha was there and knew what was up.

Girls can be so damn competitive with each other. That's a hard fact. I'm sorry to say but I used that to my advantage. When Cha saw me talking to Bon, she became sour and when Bon saw me talking to Cha, Bon became more aggressive. It was so entertaining to experience this.

Thanks to our promoter friend, all of us got pretty drunk. I got a chance to kiss Cha and man it was sweet.

This continued on to the next night when I went out with Cha and couple of other friends to downtown. We headed to Stingeree kinda late and the line was super long. Just as we were about to leave, Bon and her group of girl friends shows up and they had us on the list to get in but still had problems letting the guys in. Just then our other acquaintance, who happen to have a VIP table walks by and tells me and my other homie to come inside with him. Let me tell you, that felt pretty damn good to be walking in VIP style in front of all this other people who are stuck at the line.

Competition between Cha and Bon was still pretty fierce and I played it to my advantage. All the guys I was with were pretty impressed to watch couple of hot girls fight for me like that. Cha, however kept it cool, just the way I like it. In the end, I just ditched out to more secluded area in the club with Cha alone and hung out with her most of the time.

It was 2am so we went to my friends house to crash, since I live in LA now and we were partying in San Diego, but my other groups of friends were in the house just chilling. We decided to get adventurous and headed out to look for an after party. Some random promoter on the street gave us this dinky flyer and told us to check it out. The location was pretty suspicious and they were serving alcohol til 8 in the morning. It was a rave so we got high, danced til 7am and went home with Cha and had the best massage and conversation I've had in many years with a woman.

I didn't want to crowd this story with the details but it was an amazing weekend. With friends like this and a place like San Diego, single life can be so damn addictive and great. You just have to play your cards right. I have til August to party it up before heading to Guam, my home town. I better make the best of it.

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Saddle Ranch PUA experience

I finally got a chance to go to the infamous Saddle Ranch in Los Angeles to see what the hype was all about. This is the place where Mystery and other pick up artist do their live seminars at. My friend and I went in and noticed that there were no dance floors and there is a mechanical bull in the middle of the bar. It was a Thursday night so I guess it meant that it wasn't too busy. I was keeping my eyes out for peacocking guys that were pick up artists but didn't find any that stood out.

I get a phone call from a female friend of mine for a booty call but I tell her I'm already out with my friend and tell her I thought she was so sweet to call me this late for some nastiness.

We looked around and decided to drink just one beer for the night. I wasn't really in the mood to get all crazy tonight but I noticed 2 cute hispanic girls sitting by the bar. I also noticed 2 cute white girls by the bar as well and noticed them checking us out so we decided that we shouldn't approach them first. We should have them see us talking to other people before we approach them so that they won't think we're after their jewels:)

I went over the the cute Hispanic girls and asked them where I can find a better bar to go to since the Saddle Ranch was so dead.

Always remember to approach with confidence and talk slow but firmly.

The Mystery openers are kinda rough to go with since it's so damn main stream and so many girls have watched the pick up artist show on VH1. I already had a handful of girls ask me if I got my approaches from that show which usually ends up me just walking away from the conversation since their guard goes up so damn high. Don't get me wrong, Mystery's stuff is still top notch.

Anyways, the cute one of the left gave me the stink eye and a cold shoulder. I was still in control since I came in with a cool body language that shows that I'm not really interested and I personally don't get intimidated that easily.

I said: Do you sense something bad from me? I'm really not trying to get your number or take you home with me. I really want to know a cool place to hang besides this place.
Cute girl replys: I'm just cautious of player kinda guys.

I loved it. I love it when girls tells me I'm a player just from meeting me for the first time. Doesn't most girl want a player than a shy, boring guy? What a compliment.

I tell her: You're lucky then because I'm not interested.

It was on since then. I get my homie into the conversations and we all have great time. We're all laughing and joking and teasing. I never give her a straight answer. She asks me what nationality I am and I tell her I'm Puerto Rican (I'm Korean). She teases me and I tease her back. I tell her I hate her since she's so mean and that we can never date because she'll just make me cry. She tells me she wants to marry me though.

She asks what kind of bar we want to go to and I said somewhere with a dance floor. She challenges me to see if I knew how to dance and stands up next to me. I grab her and give her a little salsa move and she was impressed and possibly tuned on.

My homie was next to her so they start a comfort building conversation and so do I with the cute ones friend. The friend was cute but not as cute:) I'd say a 6 and the other one was an 8 but made her a 9 since she was so fun to talk to. The friend and I exchange names and talk about simple stuff. My homie gets the cuties number and she says that we all need to go out tomorrow together.

I over hear my homie telling the cutie my name so I jump in and tell him not tell her. She asks me why. I say 'because I don't like you'. She does a motion of her heart breaking and I take it, throw it on the floor and stomp on it. She's shocked. I than pretend to pick up the heart and tell her I want to put it back inside her. She teases me by thrusting her chest at me all sexually. I pull away and tell her I don't think so.

Even though my homie got the number it is understood between us that whoever opens the set has the choice. I love it when my homie gets the number cause it makes me harder to get and the girl knows I can still be reached but far enough that it's still a challenge.

We had to go since the our parking meter was only for an hour. The cutie asks me if I really hate her. I think she was serious so I lean close to her ear and say yes I really hate you and pull away. I then quickly pull up real close to her with her knees on my groin and my arms around her and whisper to her ear what my real name is. She tells me what her name is and tells me she wants to see me tomorrow night. We just stared into each others eyes with that nonverbal, sexual communication. I have built so much sexual tension between us with all the teasing and hating that we could've made out right there but since I really had to go, I give her a kiss on both of the cheeks and leave.

Leaving her with a sense of Mystery is big. We all love the challenge and the mystery of 'what will happen in the future' perspective. Anyways, I had a great time just talking to the two girls. We laughed, joked, teased and got a little physical. Just having a great conversation with the world is amazing to me and so damn fun. The key is to learn what Mystery and David Deangelo has to teach you and make it your own. Try not to copy them for word for word. Understand the concept of being a man and having that confidence and you being the prize is what it takes to meet great and wonderful ladies.

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Being Yourself.

I know I haven't written in a while and that's because doing the same thing over and over got pretty old real fast. Saying the same thing felt fake and I didn't feel emotionally satisfied. After going out so many times and talking to so many girls, you tend to get burnt out a bit. So I took a break. I kept going out but didn't have that game mentality. Also want to mention that I've had a handful of girls tell me I must've read the game book or watched the pick up artist tv show.

The goal is to keep doing it until it becomes you naturally. Now when I go out, I don't think about openers, negs and any other methods. Now, I just act like myself and not let them have it so damn easy.

Lets be honest, most guys will start to act nice and start giving and do anything they can to impress the girl. The harder you try the less it works and more the girl pushes you away. Crazy, I know. Damn girls. Than again, we do the same thing. When a girl gives it up easily to me, I tend to lose interest fast unless of course if she is very attractive than her giving it up easily still makes you like her.

Now, when I go out, it's all about having that confidence. I throw that cocky funny comments from time to time. There is no sequence I follow. When I feel like complimenting her, I'm careful not to give it to her that easily and rephrase them. Instead of saying 'I think you're so beautiful' I'll say something like 'you are so adorable' then give her a soft pinch on her cheeks.

You're probably wondering why I'm writing after all this months. I'll tell you why. Last night I went out to gaslamp downtown and met a damn attractive girl. I rolled out with a two other homies and 4 home girls. The night was amazing.

She gave me a quick look and I responded quickly by taking her hand and taking her to the dance floor. I didn't even ask. I just took her cause I knew what I wanted and showed her exactly that. I felt instant hard attraction from her. We danced intimately for 10 minutes without saying anything and it was hot. I finally broke it and asked her name. We talked in the middle of the dance floor. I would freak her than back off, spin her than freak her again.

I think of dancing as like fucking. We have to change it up cause doing one thing can get boring and plus, it's a great time to show the girl what you can do in the bed. You have to lead all the time. Be the man.

I told her I'm trying hard not to kiss her than I kissed her. This kiss was great compared to all other kisses I had when I go out because we had this chemistry. We were in the same page and kept starting at each others eyes. She would hold my face and I would grab the back of her neck and we would kiss. I finally broke it off and offered to get her a drink. She said no, than I offered her a cup of water and took her hand and headed to the bar. I stopped half way and introduced her to my crew. My home girl tells her that she should like me because I'm a great catch. I love her:)

I meet her brother and friend. The friend tells me he knows me from the movie fast and the furious. I pat him on the back and tell him he's cool. He buys me and my new girl shots. He instantly likes me but her brother was a bit cautious. I even think he told her I was a player which she tell me that she knows I'm a player. Really, what does that mean? I ask her if that intimidates her. She smiles.

We go outside for a smoke and I get her number. We talk, hold each other, kiss couple times. I noticed how comfortable real fast. I tell her she won't be able to handle me. She tells me I'm too young for her even though she's 3 years younger than me. I find myself qualifying myself to her but I say it in a way where it shows some value. I say "how can I be so young for you when I'm older and am a man. Isn't it being a man about having your my own business and ambitions that's being reached?" Than I tell her I'll giver her 10 seconds to get over it. She tells me being 30 is still young. I tell her I love her for that.

I like to tell girls things like "I love you", "when we get married", "when we have love quarrels" to break the uncomfotable emotional barrier. It's psychological. You usually only say this to someone you have know for a while or to a girlfriend so it brings back ease emotions making you two feel closer than usual real quick.

She tells me I'm a player and rushes away from me to go back inside. I hold back. Than I'm missing her already so I go inside to look for her. The place is crowded and dark and couldn't find her for 10 minutes. I go back outside and luckily I have her number so I call her. Se picks up but i can't hear her because of the loud music. She comes outside and tells me she's been searching for me. I tell her the same thing. The place closes so she says bye and walks away. I grab her by hand, pull her back and kiss her one last time. She whispers in my ear that I'll make a great fuck. Damn. I have never had a great compliment like that on the first night of meeting a girl. When you look at her, she is super hot, thin tight body and has an innocent look and to hear her talk like that blew my mind.

I like this one. The chemistry was electrifying. It does suck that I live in LA now and she's in San Diego.

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